#development meme

ace friendly. please feel free to change pronouns as needed. do not steal. this is original.

this post is 18+, please be responsible.

do they enjoy physical contact? what's their favourite kind? do they have any weak spots? what about hugs?

what's their stamina like? can they go for hours? do they need to rest and hydrate regularly? have they always been like that?

do they enjoy kissing? have they ever kissed anyone? how skilled or experienced are they?

have they ever had sex? do they enjoy it? if no, does your muse have anything they find sensual without it being sexual? things they appreciate without it escalating.

what's one of their fantasies? if they don't have a fantasy, is there any reason?

have they ever been caught during sex? if not, what does your muse think of that risk?

what's their love language(s)? go into depth. what makes those their favourite? does it change depending on the person? what are some little details about what makes your muse tick?

are they into roleplay? if not, why?

are they into bondage? if not, why?

when it comes to climaxing, how easy is it for your muse? if it's difficult, how does that make them feel? do they even bother? why is it easy / difficult?

how does your muse feel about sex generally? outside of whether they enjoy it, do they think it's good, bad, ugly, attractive? would they like to have more or less of it?

is your muse adventurous? does it outside of the bedroom / in public or somewhere they're not supposed to? why do you think that is?

are they vocal? in turn, do they enjoy vocal partners?

are they embarrassed by sex? if so, why is that? if not, where did they get that courage from?

what is their position? dominant, submissive, switch? name any others i haven't listed.

what do they consider the perfect night? candles, a picnic, a dinner at a restaurant... what's the best way to woo your muse on a date?

are they casual lovers or intimate ones? intense or not?

is your muse a controlling lover / partner? in what way?

was your muse's first time a positive one? if yes, what went right? if no, what went wrong? please remember to tag any potentially triggering content. if your muse hasn't had a first time, do they want one?

If asked today, would your muse say they were happy? How long have they been happy?

Your muse has to share something that’s hard for them to talk about. What is the biggest thing they don’t want to say aloud/admit? What makes it hard for them to say it?

Name one line in the sand your muse has. Tell us one way someone can go ‘too far’.

Is conflict something to be avoided at all costs, or does it sometimes have to happen?

Would your muse use the word ‘brave’, about themselves? Should they?

What’s one of the bravest things your muse has done? Did they consider it brave?

Your muse is trying to calm down/unwind after a long, bad day in a hotel room/out of state, away from family and friends and most of their things. What do they do?

What does kindness look like, to your muse?

Does your muse think an action has to be intentional and malicious, to be cruel?

What’s something they’ve mildly been afraid of before? Not a huge trauma, something small?

Can they leave their work at the door (disconnect from ‘work mode’ and enter ‘home mode’) or do they carry it with them wherever they go?

The last thing your muse has been annoyed about?

What’s something your muse has done, in canon or in a thread, that just makes you Love ThemTM?

What does your muse like about [character name]?

What is their pain tolerance like - and if it’s high, how did it get to be that way?

Would they stop to help if someone needed help, in the street?

What’s something about the way your muse ‘helps’ that might be different from how someone else would help? What in particular about their style of ‘help’ is different/unusual? 

If their neighbour was sick and asked them to do some small household task, does your muse do the household task and leave or do they Offer More?

What’s a fail-safe gift for your muse?

Tell us about a small, passing relationship your muse has with someone in their everyday life. Are they on a first name basis with their barista? What about the busdriver?

If your muse was evicted from their home with no warning, today, where would they go? What would they do?

How important are apologies, to your muse? Do they have to be aloud?

Name something your muse regrets. 

Do they take hard decisions as a dare? Does your muse think “kill this person or you’re [letting bad thing happen]” is a dare (Do It Or You’re A Coward)? If they do think it’s a dare, do they do it? 

[heres where i'd put a vineno sprite if i had one!!!]

26. How stylistically fancy is your oc? Or would they rather go for comfort and plainness instead?

His street close are as comfort and plain oriented as they come. Sometimes he doesn't even bother putting on his own clothes and just goes straight for Mille's stuff. Now that guy knows how to be comfy!

He doesn't really care that he's stretching it out or that his midriff is showing when he reaches for anything. He's comfy..

Smell like Mille <3

29. How empathetic is your oc? Or are they closer to being a sociopath? Any reason why?

I don't like the way this question is worded hfuflkaejfhea. He's no more empathetic than the average troll you'll see on the street. Maybe a little less than that, but not completely incapable of understanding and empathizing with other people. It's just not one of his fortes.

Not really ... A reason for it. That's how he was hatched. All the social skills must've gone to his brother.

31. What is your oc’s sense of humour like? What do they find funny? Do they try to be funny? Are they actually?

well he is heavily influenced by the least funny spider man in all of spider society

He has a very dry sense of humor! He doesn't try to make jokes, but he does have little quips and comebacks that can give the man a hearty chuckle if dry sarcasm is something they're interested in.

37. How picky is your oc? Will they not accept something because of the smallest details being off, or do they not care in the slightest? Why?

Oh girl, the way he doesn't give a single fuck. If you're giving him a gift his first question is why and the second one is what do you want.

He's just never really been a fussy or picky person. Vineno just kind of takes life as it comes to him. No need to make a big deal of the little things.