#debriefing

play phases Aftercare vs. Debriefing As a Kink Aware Coach, I often hear from people that one of the moments where a play relationship can fall apart is the ‘aftercare phase’. That can, of course, be the lack of aftercare (which is why I regularly say: talk about it beforehand and schedule it in). But what I want to talk about here is that, in my view, ‘aftercare’ and debriefing are separate…

He’s a little confused, but he has the strong spirit :v

im giving him a lot of grace for a couple of these lmao

he is functionally responsible

humor

Well...

I guess I've always either wanted to write a modern Merlin book series. Which is where Merlin ( @legendaryenchantment ) came from.

What's a favorite movie from your childhood?

Disclaimer; A lot of my childhood is kinda...fuzzy. (It wasn't a great one.)

And I am also terrible at the 'favorite' game, so you get a selection lmao.

I would say I really, really, liked Big Friendly Giant (the animated one from 1989). My Dad and I would got to the Family Video and he'd let me wander and pick things. TROUBLE WAS I was prone to picking the same things OVER AND OVER, lmfao. To his credit, he never complained.

Lesse...Lion King was a big one. There was this artistic mirror my maternal grandma had on the wall with a matador with a bull painted on it and I'd just 'rawr' my little heart out into it.

And, of course, the VIP GOAT! Land Before Time. c:

At least, those are the ones I remember the most. I was also pretty into the Power Ranger Movies and Pokemon, of course, but I enjoyed the games more when it came to the Pokemon.

If you could be any mythological creature, what would you be and why?

Mythological? That's a tough one. Hm.

I guess... a were-animal? But, more of the skin walker variety. Where you transform by magic and discipline. Probably some kind of feline variety. Like a house cat or big cat or something.

Maaaaybe a Griffin. Griffin wouldn't be terrible.

If you had to dye your hair a different shade or color, what would you choose?

It's too much maintenance work, but I have always wanted to keep up some sort of purple/blue combination that's like dark and only kind of color shifts to the eye in light. Something like that.

I dyed my hair blue, once, without bleaching and my hair was such a dark blue that it only lit up in direct light, lol. Made me happy. I've got very dark brown hair, but there's strands of lighter brown and blonde so it created a cool natural dynamic coloring. As I get older, they're turning gray and white so I think I could pull that off again with EVEN MORE little dimensional changes. C: