Jan 28, 2018
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I've been kissed by people who did a very good job. But they don't give kissing their whole attention. They can't. No matter how hard they try parts of their minds are on something else. Missing the last bus, or their own techniques in kissing, or maybe worry about jobs, or money, or will the spouse or parent or neighbors catch on. This One doesn't have technique...but when They kiss you They aren't doing anything else. You're Their whole universe...and the moment is eternal because They don't have any plans and aren't going anywhere. Just. Kissing. You.
Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein
I want to grok this, but I am only an egg.
De-Gendering conversations
You know you do it, without thinking. Every day.
You immediately decide if a person you meet is 'he' or 'she' and start to use that within conversations, writing etc. You use gendered pronouns based on just a name, sometimes.
Yet how does this allow for the genderqueer amongst us. Does this make it harder and more obvious when someone is moving from one gender to another? That stress of 'did I use the right pronoun' moments.
I had a Head of Diversity report proudly that they had stopped using pronouns with me (either using my name, or a plural). I smiled and asked why only for me. Why not do it with everyone.
It was like a lightbulb had lit up.
How to De-Gender?
I avoid using the artificial third person, one, zie, hir, mostly because with a decent NZ accent, 99% can't tell between "her" and "hir" when I say it.
De-Gendering english is not trivial, but it can be done without loosing too much grammatical sense. Reword the sentence into a different tense, use names rather than pronouns, or if you get stuck, use a plural. Most people won't notice the plural pronouns.
The more you do it, the more natural it becomes. Don't berate yourself for any slips, just try for an hour not to use gender or gender pronouns in speech or writing. After than hour or so, your brain will be much more aware of pronoun usage, and more able to remove it.