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17. Whats their go-to safe word?

Ruth: She likes using nonverbal cues when it comes to safe-words. Tapping knuckles on a surface or snapping fingers three times means stop, no questions asked. She personally likes this over an actual word because when she’s subbing she sometimes can get so lost in the sauce she struggles with words. And a lot of her partners do, too

Celene: She likes words that are a little bit longer, as they’re harder to mishear for something else. Her personal favorite is “starlight.” 

Kassius: He is of the mind that you have to pick a word you’d never otherwise say in bed. He chose “grapefruit” because he can’t think of a single scenario that would come up while he’s getting railed 

Talis: Didn’t understand why “stop” wasn’t a viable choice at first. They wanted to pick something that would be easy to remember, and so they went with “discontinue” or “desist” because they mean the same thing but you’d never say them unless you really meant it.

22. Favorite thing/part about sex

Ruth: The intimacy and fun-ness of it. Also why she chooses partners she’s at least friends with.

Celene: The teasing, flirting, chasing, all of the foreplay before you ever even make it to the bedroom. 

Kassius: The actual sex itself. It’s all about that pleasure, babey.

Talis: Aftercare. They love the post-sex cuddling and pillow talk.

23. Least favorite thing/part about sex

Ruth: Set-up. She knows the importance of it, and knows how much fun the fruits of her labors is. But setting up makes her impatient and all she wants to do is get to the good stuff. 

Celene: She knows it happens and that its normal, but she hates falling out of bed. She’ll laugh it off and move on with life, but she still just really wishes that it wouldn’t happen. Ever again.

Kassius: The cleanup. He’d just as well not do any cleanup if he could get away with it. Most partners of his are not of the same mindset, however, and he feels compelled to help.