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Here's Dandy's 2025 holiday pin-up!

Dandy Darling, Norwich, UK-based drag king

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Venus: Have you ever had your heart broken?

nah.

Morpheus: Do you daydream often?  Of what?

hmmm… less than i think maybe it would appear?  that is … i think i come off as someone who daydreams a lot, but i think most of the time when i daydream about things is pretty directed … like i have to make an actual choice to think about a topic.  (same with imaginary friends … im pretty sure i come off as someone who would have had a lot but i actually never had any.)

i do have a tendency to zone out totally unintentionally though … it has happened to me in important situations ex. like, “literally DURING piano performances when my brain just leaves my body and i think about cereal before returning and realizing that i KIND OF HAVE AN IMPORTANT TASK TO DO.”  and, also i think a lot of my stray thoughts are kind of … random or almost whimsical in their logic?

Pluto: Where do you think we go when we die?

for some reason i’ve always felt really strongly that we don’t go anywhere, that we just cease to exist.  i had a major death related crisis at the realization of yk, my own mortality and that of, like, everyone i’ll ever meet, when i was six or seven.  at the time i really strongly wanted to believe that death was not the end, but, uh, couldn’t do it?  lol.

i mean … consciousness is probably something that happens in the brain and is inextricably linked to our flesh prisons, strange as it is to think about!  (something else really weird is that uh … all the cells and stuff in your body are individually alive … and you are like an also alive composite of these other alive things???  often the little alive things that make you up die and thats fine? other times they will live for a while after your death?  sometimes they break off of you and go onwards to be alive elsewhere?  weird.)

anyways.. yk the quote “the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak,” and yet, the spirit is part of the flesh.  but i dont know, if there is such a thing as a soul, perhaps it would not be bound to the body.  i see no evidence against that… but if there were such a thing as a soul, which is NOT consciousness, what would be its function or meaning?

uhh … death used to scare me, both my own and that of others around me.  i liked existing, and yk, being alive!  (i still like these things, generally, FYI).  [2012 tfios voice: i fear oblivion]  i think i wanted to like, ,,, do something Important or whatever, so that I would not be forgotten, and so the effects of my life would continue past the time when i kicked the bucket.

i feel differently now.  we’re all going to die and be forgotten sooner or later … it’s all peanuts to space.  it is enough, i think, just to exist as best you can for whatever time you have.  i would be ok with it if the effect of my life was just, that i’d made some good jokes sometimes, and been kind to people, and had fun… . and who is to measure that sort of an effect against that of the guy who like,,, built a really big statue of his face or whatever?  @god fight me.

🍭👻🎃 HAPPY HALLOWEEN👹🦇🍬

Happy Halloween everyone! I hope everyone has a good one, and please remember to stay safe in whatever activities you do today!

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