#dalcore

-gender incongruence is all thats required to be trans, but incongruence is just another form of dysphoria, so you need dysphoria to be trans

-cishet aces and cishet aros are not lgbt. cis aroaces are not lgbt. a trans gay ace would be lgbt for being gay and trans, not for being ace

-nonbinary is being neither male nor female. nb identities are valid

-things like bigender, genderfluid, ect are combos of male/female/nb and are not seperate genders, just combos or pre-existing genders

-mogai is fine to an extent. some identities are harmful and should not be used but the harmless genders and sexualities are chill.

-neopronouns are valid. i will try my best to use them if you want me to. i personally think a few sets work well with me [but im sticking with he/him for the most part]

-self diagnosis can be both good and bad in some ways. its helpful for recognizing your symptoms and getting help with stuff but you shouldnt diagnose yourself with 50 personality disorders.

-pronouns are gendered but i couldnt give less of a shit who uses what. anyone can use neopronouns. aligned nb people can use binary pronouns. it makes more sense for guys to use he/him and girls to use she/her but again i dont care. live your life.

-you cant be a transmasc lesbian or a transfem gay man. thats not how gender works

-strongly aligned nb folk can call themself mlm/wlw to an extent (?). but if a blog wishes for no nb/nblm/nblw interaction then you shouldnt interact if youre nb

-expecting everyone to use your neopronouns is dumb. its good to have an aux he/she/they set that youre comfy with listed, or at least some fucking easy neopronouns

-being anti or pro neopronouns isnt transphobic on either side. same w mogai.