Some headcanon requests for @dibidibidisgusted
I took a crack at them! Hope I did your guilty pleasure some justice because same
1. Zhaoās daughter is being courted by Zuko (post war) He deals with worry by means of... helicopter parenting. Seeing Zuko ascend to the throne would come with mixed feelings as it is, so when his daughter gets wrapped up in courtship, itās just evil-eyeing each other when the poor girlās turned the other way, perfectly unassuming in that they seem to be getting along well. Being the sole person other than Iroh who knows Zuko is the one who freed the Avatar... His kin, with the two-faced Blue Spirit? Zhao thinks not.
Political perks or no, heās going to grill Zuko for details and intentions, and talk his daughterās ears off on how to defend herself if a boy ever toes the line. Itāll most likely end when all walls come down between them, and either the mask is gifted to the Zhao family as a symbol of trust/understanding, or he manages to earn the Firelordās (unofficial) pardon for being a big-time jerk. Both. Both is good. If when she becomes queen, does he get a spot on the council? Is it possible?
2. How Zhao and his wife feel the first time they see their daughter Think of the kind of moment that jump-starts a redemption arc... For a man like Zhao, Iād say it would be a moment like this. Not finally taking in the real cost of war, or some decent bone in his body kicking at the sight of the horrors, the loss. Not one of Jeong Jeongās teachings springing into his head when heās about to rain fire and brimstone.
Not raw or painful, inch for inch like Zukoās arc. But in the pocket of time where everything is frozen, and the world glows in a way it does every moment after, and life turns onto a road of no turning back. Zhaoās stupid, duty-bound shell jarring when his wife slips the bundle into his arms, cracks spreading through his misgivings about marriage and family and the distractions of civilian life when her waking eyes brush his... pieces of that shell falling away and revealing someone who can smile with every muscle in his face, who trembles when her tiny hand accepts his finger, and quickly passes the bundle over before his knees fail him. For him, itās the final proof. After that, heās never really the same. And who is? (Except for Ozai. Choke.)
3. Playing when she accidentally ends up burning a leaf If this is the first time she demonstrates the ability, he might actually be underwhelmed! Itās safe to assume Zhaoās first signs probably sparked mid-brawl with the other kids his age... and, ehm... the property damages were extensive. If his daughter is utterly delighted and goes about catching other leaves that spiral to the ground, pinching them, and setting them ablaze with manic glee in her face - Zhao will have aged twenty years, and finally understood the migraine of one unlucky Jeong Jeong.
If sheās frightened and panicked, however, the approach is slightly different... he takes a page out of his old masterās book and guides her through a simple breathing excercise. Both to help her calm down, and as her very first lesson! Heās a fast-paced dad. Of course, after the milestone he would be sure to throw a big celebration or a quaint little hoorah with respects to tradition. Maybe a good opportunity to pass down an heirloom! Topped off with her asking in a small voice, āWould you love me less if I couldnāt bend?ā and Zhao wrapping her in a bruising hug, sure to tell her, āThere will never be a day where I loved you more the day before.ā notice how he dodges like a PRO
4. Comes back after a really long trip He likely knows heāll be returning to someone just as heartsick as he... so, to deflate some tension, Zhao pretends he doesnāt recognize the curious stranger in his home. Itās up to her to convince him sheās the one and only! Can and will end in giggly antics, from shouting the embarrassing secrets heās told no one else at neighbors-can-overhear volumes (while he frantically tries to close her mouth), goofy profiling, testing what she knows and learned while he was away so he can go āYouāre certainly as smart as any kid of mine... okay, Iām sold.ā The end reward is definitely a shower of overseas keepsakes and thrilling stories. She practically clings to him overnight and the next day.
If sheās a bit older... things could get a little angstier. Coming home to a teenager with pent-up resentment, fear that he wouldnāt return that she internalizes like a queen - not super fun. Especially if sheās given him the cold shoulder, and Zhao being Zhao takes it personally, or thinks heās lost her for good. Manās trying to de-stress and then he has to deal with this shit. When the paperwork comes in and heās stretched thin into the early hours, she finds him, conked out with a nib in his teeth or using a stack of books as a pillow. Girl huffs and puffs, finally throws a blanket over him, and when sheās sure the snoring is as obnoxious as can be, presses a small peck to his cheek. A grumbled āLove you, Dadā and slinking out of the room later, Zhao pops an eye open and smiles like the smug, conniving bastard he is softly. real soft
Or he comes back and finds she adopted a stray animal OOP