#cthagod

And when Amanda Seales said “ I think that black men get mad at me for saying stuff like that because they think its a challenge. they think it’s an accusation and finger-pointing and really what it is its a plead. Because we want y’all to be happy and healthy and winning so bad because so many of us want to be with you so bad. And in order for that to happen, we need you to be healthy and we need you to be clear and we need you t have self-knowledge and self-love. How can I expect you to love me when you don’t love yourself?”