The Truth.
So this post is in regards to Creeperchild / Freddy. I had spoken to him recently and he told me he wanted me to tell the truth so I can clear his name. So after taking time to talk to my therapist and a few other people, here is the truth. The truth is, I never once called him a pedophile; possibly other people have, but not me. Grooming does not equate to pedophilia. Grooming is an abuse tactic to "prepare" someone for something or a form of powerplay. And it's not just me who claims such. Multiple people have reached out to me on terms that Freddy had spoken to minors about kinks, shown kids NSFW, and exchanged very inappropriate conversations with people under 18 for over 4 years, it seems. I did not "Lie" about him being a groomer and my friends are not "spreading malicious rumors about you" they are all people who witnessed your behavior. Believe it or not, I didn't even mention grooming once after we had our falling out until my friends and strangers approached me with concerns for our relationship. Even during, we both were met with concerns. Even if Freddy did not intend to hurt these people, Intention does not erase impact, much like how I was not the best partner either and had consistently said or did things to hurt Freddy's feelings without the intention to hurt him, but I still hurt him. People on his side believe I orchestrated all these accounts and faked evidence and lied about him being a "pedophile" because I was "mad at him" when I literally do not even have access to the "Addressing-Creeperchild" account. I'm not smart enough nor do I have the mental energy to be some sort of mastermind. The reason I and many other people called Freddy out, was because this is behavior that was ongoing for years, but whenever he was met with constructive criticism on his behavior in DMs, he instead threw a fit and shifted blame onto other people and made it seem as if *HE* were the victim. Even if I did tell everyone that I "lied" like he wants me to, it won't do anything because MANY people witnessed this behavior. I, and many other people have tried time and time again to obtain an apology, but never once did we receive it. Even now after I did everything I could to level with him and have us BOTH take accountability for our actions. But alas, he only cares about his reputation. He wants me to "Tell the truth" the truth is, Freddy, You hurt people and never once shown remorse. I've shown remorse for him time and time again on behalf of what i've done wrong. I cannot take the full blame here and I wont. This mess was a more-than-two-person-effort. I'm sorry his 'life is ruined and he has no friends now' but hiding and deleting all of your socials instead of taking accountability or communicating with us in dms in the first place is what a guilty person does. I can not help you. You need to apologize to the people you've hurt. I've apologized to you, you need to give it back if you even want a chance of your name being cleared, because while I forgive you and have no issue with you, other people still do, so verbally abusing me through texts and calling me a "dirty liar" is not going to help. You are 27, I am 19. this is becoming an annoyingly emotionally immature situation and I highly doubt you want to remain in the same spot you are now when you're 30 or 40. I know I don't. which is why I'm no longer running in circles in hopes for answers or to fix something that I know will never be fixed as long as the other person won't put in the effort. All it takes is for you to come forward and acknowledge that you were inappropriate with both minors and adults and that you will try to do better. I fear that is a major stepping stone to clearing your name, but you won't do that. I love ya Freddy, I want you to have your life back, and maybe one day we can be friends again, but until then, I can't fight for you anymore. I'm sorry. v proof of my statements.
