#coord help

This whole thing started with a challenge to make a coord with knee-high boots and now I'm trying to really make the concept work better than my first attempt at the concept. Nothing wrong with making a coord and then making it better and wearing it a second time.

Does anyone have blouse / wig recommendations for holy lantern. I really want to try to coordinate a ott gothic outfit for a event I'm planning. Problem is all my wigs are candy colored and my natural hair is too short and more of an ash blonde. So does anyone know what colors would go best for gothic Lolita? I've also had a hard time finding a blouse that would look good with the dress. Since mine is dress is white I feel a white blouse looks too stark. Maybe a long sleeve black blouse? (Sorry to sound like a newb. I'm just used to sweet Lolita (ﾟoﾟ;; )

Coord 2 Dress: Magic tea party Blouse: Magic tea party Shoes: antaina

would anyone be willing to give me a brand that makes military lolita style dresses and sells to americans? most of the photosets flying about dont have a source..?