Jul 14
Anyways, we are like almost completely moved out of the old place, and it's like really nice and does kinda feel like we're shaking out the last dregs of ex roommate's bullshit and it has been nice to just kinda process some of the more fucked up shit more that was difficult to clock while he was still living with us.
Leaving him behind forever and shutting that door so fully. Can't wait to never think about him again and never have another moment where I sit up randomly like "HEY WAIT A SECOND WTF WHY DID I PUT UP WITH THAT."
#ramblings of an arrow#yay yippee wahoo#soon we will not have to deal with all the cat dander everywhere from the cats he never cleaned up after#loved the cats hated that he never took care of them#take responsibility for your fucking pets you have the time I do not I have a full time job and I am taking care of my disabled wife#full time on top of that#the least you could do is take care of your pets and like actually do the bare minimum of grooming required to make sure they aren't#constantly miserable#like we did ask him to on multiple multiple occasions and im sure he would deny it and say he doesn't remember but. well.#he didn't think our requests were important no matter how many times we asked which we did which my wife specifically did#to the point where she stopped feeling safe at home because she knew he wouldn't listen to her
