New Year Spell #3 - Self-Love Mirror Spell
We begin the third spell in this series by focusing on self-love. This involves glamour magic and you will be able to add more glamours in if you wish. Focus on yourself this year. Prioritize self-care, especially when times get dark. You may repeat this ritual however many times you wish throughout the year.
• Mirror (any kind will do)
• Self-love oil (or any oil having to do with love)
• Red wine, a cocktail, a mocktail, or juice of some sort for non-alcoholic options
• Ground cinnamon or cinnamon sugar, depending on what will taste best with your drink
• A relaxed environment where you will not be interrupted
1) Set up a peaceful, relaxing environment around the mirror. I recommend a relaxing playlist in the background, your seven-day candle next to you, scented candles, pretty shiny things (such as crystals), and objects soft to the touch. Tantalize your five senses. Have something for each one in front of the mirror.
2) Anoint the mirror with the oil. You may wish to draw a self-love sigil on it, this is my preferred method. Another suggestion is to draw these sigils on your body with the oil before starting.
3) As you sit or stand in front of the mirror, I want you to list the things you love about yourself physically first. "I love my thick black hair" or "I love my long legs" or "I love my enchanting eyes" are some examples. Name aloud at least five things.
4) Next, I want you to list at least five personality traits you love about yourself in the same manner as above.
5) If you want to cast any beauty glamours, this would be the ideal time to do so. I recommend glamours relating to confidence, radiance, and recognizing or amplifying your beauty, especially for the things listed.
6) Grab your drink. As you sprinkle your cinnamon or cinnamon sugar in there, recite an incantation. Hold your hands over the top of the glass once the cinnamon is in and radiate the energy of the incantation out of the palms of your hands. I have one below that I recommend adjusting to your needs:
"As I sip from this glass,
I am falling in love with who I am and the strong person I have become.
I admire my mind and body,
The (list some personality traits) that inspires me to dance with life itself.
Each taste brings me closer to acceptance and confidence,
To sexual and sensual empowerment,
To finding the beauty in every part of me that I had not seen before.
My skin glows like the moon,
My hair shines like the stars,
My eyes enchant anyone who looks into them,
My luscious lips speak my truth fearlessly,
My body is strong and beautiful,
I am in love with every part of it and this radiates into my energetic field.
So mote it be and this spell shall be free."
7) With each sip, feel it empowering you and filling you with love and compassion towards yourself. See yourself transform in the mirror in the areas you are self-conscious about. Begin to see your skin taking on a luminous glow and your hair shining. See your eyes become enchanting and your face soften with taking in the beauty of you. Visualize and feel each of these things, even if you don't fully believe it yet. Repeat every Friday as needed (which is Venus' day). Monday is another option, which is the Moon's day.
Watch your confidence begin to grow. I'll have more posts on glamour magic in the near-future if you are looking to learn more about it. The information & masterpost for this spell series is here if you are looking for it!