You've made me think a lot about kink and sexual dynamics and sadism and eroticism in general -- it's something I've definitely learned a lot from you about and something that has been really interesting/important to me to learn, too! It's been both on the personal side and more academic discussions side.
Oh man, that really means a lot! I do remember talking about that kind of thing with you a lot in our danmei days, and I feel like my understanding and personal theorizing about that stuff has evolved so much since then. (We’ve acknowledged wanting to talk more but not having topics, so maybe we should revisit this one.)
[The discussion topic, for those who missed it, is “a topic I’ve changed your mind about, made you reconsider your perspective on, or otherwise strongly influenced your thinking about”]
