#community question

I am going to ask a question (technically, 2). Half of the TFC community might not agree with me on this, but give me a moment to explain.

I was always a curious person. I was always ready to ask a question so that I could understand other people's thoughts. This question is just for me to understand the community a little more and not a callout or anything of this kind. Like I said, I want to understand and be open-minded to other people's opinions from my own.

If you don't want to answer this, please kindly ignore this post.

Now for the questions. The questions I'm wondering about for the community is this:

As simple as that. As well:

Give me as detailed a response about your DISLIKE for the ship in the comments.

OR

Give me as detailed a response about your LIKE for the ship in the comments.

‼️RULES‼️

1) Do not harass the other participants for leaving their answers in the comments. Like I said, this is strictly for me to understand the community's mindset. If I see any comments that are negative regarding other people's opinions, I will delete them.

2) I will not specifically comment on your answers. I will read them thoroughly, though. You are free to give me your opinion, and I will not tell you what you should and shouldn't like. 🌸

3) Just have fun answering! Think of this as a quiz or something, just there is no right answer. 🌼

If you're curious about me, I like these two idiots together. Their banter is just entertaining and I love how some fan art and fics depict them together. They make up for a good laugh! Haha!

Anyway, thank you if you read all of this and I'm eager to read your responses.

No worries! I try and reblog resources when I come across them, but I will leave this post open for people to add accounts they know of!

When I remember and find some I'll add them to this post as well, so feel free to save this post and come back to the notes.

What are the things you do on a regular bases in your practice?

Monthly, weekly, daily, etc?

Can we make new terms for people who can get pregnant, have uterus, have penis, need Pap smears, etc?

“Women”/“women issues” and “male” doesn’t cut it of course, because of intersex, trans and gnc (and maybe another identity I’ve missed) exist.

To me, it really does feel, at least a bit, like reducing people to their organs, and it isn’t exactly easy or quick to say or type. I know it’s sorta tricky because that’s basically what “woman” or “female” and “man” or “male” care means/meant; care revolving around those specific organs. But there’s more than that and they deserve acknowledgement. And I think there’s value in easier/simpler ways to express when someone’s talking about people that have the ability to get pregnant, or those that have prostates.

This is mostly based on some personal observations I've made about who I am and how I navigate the general coquette subculture and related spaces, and I wanna know if anyone else has had similar experiences. So, for anyone who considers themselves coquette/faunlet or for anyone who gravitate towards similar/overlapping aesthetics and subcultures, please reblog this and answer:

Do you identify as queer in any capacity?

Are you neurdivergent?