Hii!! Idk if ur taking reqs rn but I actually love ur Adam hcs, I was wondering if u could do some angst hcs? Yk like argument wise?
yes of course i can! SO SO sorry it took me so long to get to this friend!!! I'm always taking requests even if it takes me one hundred years to finish them... also i like that im the adam guy now it brings me a sense of pride
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I'm thinking this is early in the relationship because he's not daft or cruel, just inexperienced. we must keep in mind he's spent a lot of his time before coming to earth very much in danger. this does not make you very good at self reflection
he starts a lot of fights he doesn't finish. because he'll either storm off and then come back crying or cut out the middle man and start crying on the spot
most arguments he starts are because he's worried about you. You were home late from work and didn't call or anything, he didn't know where you were. Maybe you arnt eating. Something is stressing him out and he doesn't know how to express that. which is very unhealthy, he understands that. it doesn't make him feel good to upset you. it makes him feel very bad actually
He just isn't quite sure how else to go about it.
it makes him feel a sort of all-consuming nausea when he says something and he can see how it makes your face shift
he's immediately aware that he's said something hurtful. He's actually quite perceptive, he just doesn't know what to do with any of the information he's gathered
when he sees your face change he'll stop and start back tracking
"i'm- i didnt mean that. i-im sorry i wasnt- nono no dont cry, please dont cry"
if hes made you cry i think it goes one of two ways, depending on how long youve been together (directly correlating with how much hes emotionally matured)
if youâre kind of a newer couple, hes probably gonna walk away and come back later. like completely shut down. he comforts you to the best of his ability (which isnt all that great at this point) but hes not the most emotionally available.
He'll sit next to you and stroke your back, arm, wherever you let him. He'll apologize repeatedly and ask if you need anything. He doesnt really want to talk it out cause thats uncomfortable for him, but with some coaxing you could get him to have a real heart to heart with you.
He wants to mature, he just struggles. but he can change
if youve been together for a while, hes gonna break down with you. getting out apologies between heaving sobs.
he'll cradle your face, smoothing his hands over your cheek repeatedly as if he could brush his hurtful words off you.
"im sorry. im- hic- so sorry. i didnt mean it. i- hic- i love you, l-love you so much"
He's actually a lot more emotional than you'd think
After youve both calmed down a bit he'll bring you some water and properly beg to be forgiven. Holding your hand, kissing up your arm.
And really, how could you say no to that face
overall, Adam just wants to know that youre safe. when he lashes out its not because of you. and he really does want to change and be better about expressing himself in a healthier way. but, sometimes we lash out. it happens to the best of us. even the perfect human
Now if YOU were to start an argument with him, i dont think he'd argue back all that much
he takes most of what you say as gospel honestly. so if youre mad at him, then he surely must deserve it in his own mind
Anything you say to him, hes just nodding along. he really doesnt question much of it. so you kind of feel like an idiot for bitching at him
cause hes just standing there, wide eyed and majestic, taking it. so you end up ending it pretty quickly
cause once again, who could really be mad at that face
