#changing others

Changing others, changing self!

CHANGING OTHERS, CHANGING SELF! Today, I read this with mixed feelings: “Be wary of people who constantly keep an eye on what you’re doing but don’t compliment or support you.” – Dhar Mann – Have you ever felt this way at work, at home, or in your social circle? Do you feel unappreciated by your boss, your spouse, your friends? But Nicky Gumble says, “You can’t change how people treat you or what…

Changing others, changing self!

CHANGING OTHERS, CHANGING SELF!

  Today, I read this with mixed feelings:

“Be wary of people who constantly keep an eye on what

you’re doing but don’t compliment or support you.”

Dhar Mann –

  Have you ever felt this way at work, at home, or in your social circle?

Do you feel unappreciated by your boss, your spouse, your friends?

  But Nicky Gumble says,

“You can’t change how people treat you or…

Why do people still choose to live for themselves when living for others pays better?

For instance,  choosing to live for the good of your followers makes you a good leader.

Choosing to produce what makes others happy earns you massive sales.  It may not be what you like but what the people like.

Choosing to listen to others share their problems without you mentioning a scratch of the mountain of…

You cannot change the way people see things, what they think or whatever they may say.  That’s not your job.  Just be yourself, and allow them the same.

What do you do when people won’t change?

Did you ever have an epiphany? I do and usually through experiences that do not lend themselves to such a thing. I mean shouldn’t there be bright lights or a flash bulb somewhere?

But still, you feel like someone has finally found your switch and turned on the lights.

A conversation I had with a friend once was such an occasion. I learned that a situation in her life that she had just told me…