For those of you who have not heard of CBYX, it is an exchange program between Germany and the United States that is sponsored by the U.S. Congress and German Bundestag. For one year, youth age 15-18 live with a host family and attend German high school. Going the other way, German high school students do the same here in the U.S. Best part is that CBYX is a full scholarship! Sound intriguing? We hope so. We bring this scholarship up now as the deadline for applications looms in the distance--December 1st. In order to arrange the details and finish the app in time, now is the time for action if you want to throw your hat in the ring for this prestigious scholarship.
To help you conceptualize the before, during, and after of being a CBYXer, we asked our social media expert Claire, who completed her year in 2010, to talk with us about her experience.
What made you initially apply to CBYX?
I applied to CBYX for a few reasons. My uncle moved to Germany many decades ago, and Iād grown up hearing this mysterious language being spoken by him and my cousins when they visited. My brother and I would sit with our German-to-English dictionary trying to pick up what was being discussed. That interest combined with a natural sense of adventure led me to favoring the more untraditional path of doing a year abroad in high school and wanting to do it in Germany. Unfortunately, being an exchange student in high school isnāt as common in the U.S. (yet), so winning a full scholarship helped convince my parents and school to support it.
How did you arrange the year abroad with your school?
Arranging a year abroad in high school is difficult if your school hasnāt had a student do it before you. I was the first at my school, and so I had a meeting with my guidance counselor as soon as I could to discuss my options. I suggest bringing materials with you about the prestige of the program, and emphasizing your flexibility. For example, I took online courses for English and History before I left for the year as they wouldnāt be comparable in Germany. I also took the SATās abroad as to be on track for applying to college when I returned. Basically, Iād speak in statements with your school about how you will arrange the year rather than coming with questions--as it opens up the door for them saying it isnāt possible or that you would need to repeat a year.
Was it difficult to learn German? Did you speak it before you left?
I hadnāt traveled outside of the U.S. before CBYX, so for me it was shocking to get off the train in Berlin and suddenly everything was in German--signs, announcements, labels. I had two years of middle school/high school German at my disposal which gave me limited vocab to work with. At first, I prioritized what I said because it often required running into a word I didnāt know, which was exhausting. But word by word and day by day my German improved. I was very motivated to learn because with each word I learned my daily life became a little easier and I got to show my true colors a little more. It is a humbling experience to have to lean on people a little more for help speaking or to learn the words for things, but itās all part of the growing pains of learning a new language and tons of people have done it before you so there is no shame in it.
What was living with a host family like?
I lived with a family in a residential part of Berlin. At home in Pennsylvania, I had a single parent, was the only girl, and was the youngest of four. In Berlin, I was the middle child and had two sisters. The family welcomed me as one of their own, and despite my preconceived notion of all Germans being tall and blonde, I found myself blending in in a family of short brown-haired females. My first day with the family, my host sisters and I played dress up-- giggling as we threw leopard print bras over our shirts and wore big clown-like glasses. I knew then that Iād found myself in the right home.
At the same time, it isnāt all easy--nor is your normal family. Living in someone elseās home requires some flexibility to their set routine, and communicating why you do what you do--which your mom doesnāt have to ask because she has seen you since you were born-- but your host family has not.
What were the biggest cultural differences you experienced?
As cliche as it is, I was shocked by how blunt Germans were. I was used to a lot of sugar coating and it took a while to appreciate how Germans communicate. I also had to get used to the independence given to people my age, as there was a lot more hand-holding and rules back in the states. In Germany, I was treated mostly like an adult, which was duly awesome and scary as it meant quickly taking on a lot of responsibility. Lastly, using public transport was a big difference from taking a school bus or being picked up in a car by your parents. It put a lot of new pressure on me to know how to get home or remember bus routes and schedules.
How is German school different than American school?
German school was WAY different than an American high school. At least in my school--which was an Oberschule, I ended and started at a different time almost every day, depending on which subjects I had. I had a class of about 20 kids who I had my core classes with and my teachers rotated to us instead of vise versa. Exams made up the majority of my grade rather than homework or participation and exams didnāt include multiple choice but rather short answers and essays. Also, there was no such thing as substitute teachers, rather if a teacher had vacation or was sick, you just didnāt have that class. This said, every school is different, so yours may resemble an American school more.
Is there a āgoodā year to do it?
I did my CBYX program during my junior year. This is arguably the most tricky year to do it, as colleges are looking closely at your grades and most people take the SATās that year. It is definitely possible though and I had no issue graduating or getting into a good college. There are pros to doing CBYX as a gap year between high school and college, in that you donāt have to stress out as much about your grades at your German school and can defer your college acceptance.
Did you get to travel during the year?
I got to travel a lot. Some host families will take you on their family vacations. With other CBYXers living across the country and the abundance of train options, it is easy to visit them too. Additionally, going back to young people being given more independence in Germany, it is not unusual to go with friends to other countries and stay in youth hostels or travel in general without parental supervision.
Have you returned to Germany since?
I have been lucky enough to have returned to Germany several times in the years after my program, and also to have had my host family visit me in Pennsylvania. My host family still refers to āmy bedroomā and when Iām back I curl up on the couch eating Erdnussflips with my host sisters and watch German soap operas like no time has passed. There are certainly still things about Germany I donāt understand and words I havenāt learned yet, but CBYX solidified Germany as a second home.
How has having completed CBYX helped you in the years after?
CBYX truly changed my life course, academically and professionally. Seeing an entirely different tax, welfare, and education system in Germany inspired me to study economics in college. Iāve volunteered supporting high school exchange students ever since I returned to the U.S. and have helped choose new generations of CBYXers. Speaking German has connected me with Americans and Germans alike in my city which has been the core source of a lot of my friendships. I also eventually found myself working at the German Embassy, which obviously wouldnāt have been possible without my year living there, the German skills I acquired, and the connections that came out of that. There are people who walk away from CBYX and donāt use their German again or donāt feel the draw to return back to Germany, but if you do choose to keep involved in German relations, CBYX is a very supportive, diverse, and well-connected community.
What advice would you give those applying to or on the program?
The best advice I received was as I was leaving on the airplane. A chaperone told me to āsay yes to everythingā. This year is a chance to try out a new sport, a new way of talking, a new style, a new way of being--lots of things that wouldnāt be possible or easy back home where everyone knows you. It is a chance to ask questions and expose yourself to new viewpoints. So just say yes. Personally, doing so led me to visiting my first nuclear power plant (I did not know the word for this and said yes anyhow) or to a planetarium show that blasted nothing but Queen (which if you havenāt done before, I highly recommend). I tried cowās tongue, which is surprisingly delicious on bread, and fell off my bike twice during a community bike tour. I exited my comfort zone more than I stayed in it and came back feeling like Iād lived years within just one. Iād broken outside the bubble of home and gained a new understanding of myself in the process.
If you want more information on applying for CBYX or hosting a student, check it out here: http://www.usagermanyscholarship.org/
