#career setbacks

“Failure reveals its true value only when we take the time to learn what it’s teaching us.” Failure is one of those things most of us try to avoid at all costs. We’re taught from a young age that success is the goal and failure is the enemy—that failing means we’ve fallen short, missed the mark, or let someone down. But what if that’s not the full story? What if failure isn’t a dead end but…

During those years of my life, when I would work for the top noted leading names in the healthcare sector, I was part of a project that was simple, but cumbersome and required lot of follow up and networking along various service lines. The methodical me was very happy with the work, as it involved order, process and systems, some of my very personal favorite concepts and a deep need to put…

Meera on our first call, was very confused and also a bit hesitant to share what was bothering her. While it is not common to not fully disclose the issues that keep one awake at night, Meera and the conflicted state of mind she demonstrated concerned me. I tried many ways to help her find a language to solve the problem, and then, towards the last ten minutes of our call, she said, ‘ I guess…

Rejection is an inevitable part of the audition process in the performing arts. It’s not just about how often you face rejection, but how you handle it that defines your path as an artist. This post focuses on strategies to cope with and learn from rejection, turning it into a stepping stone towards success.

1. Understand That Rejection is Not Personal It’s crucial to remember that rejection in auditions is not a reflection of your worth as an artist or individual. Casting decisions are influenced by numerous factors beyond your performance, such as specific character needs, chemistry with other cast members, or even budget constraints.

2. Allow Yourself to Process Your Feelings It’s okay to feel disappointed after a rejection. Allow yourself time to process these feelings, but try not to dwell on them. Acknowledging your emotions is a healthy part of the coping process.

3. Seek Constructive Feedback Whenever possible, seek constructive feedback from your auditions. This can provide insights into areas for improvement or aspects of your performance that stood out, even if you didn’t get the part.

4. Focus on Growth and Learning Use each audition as a learning opportunity. Regardless of the outcome, every audition is a chance to practice, improve, and gain more experience in the field.

5. Stay Connected with Your Support System Lean on your support system – friends, family, mentors, or fellow artists. They can offer encouragement, perspective, and remind you of your talents and accomplishments.

6. Keep Things in Perspective Try to keep a broader perspective. One rejection is just a small part of your entire career. Remember your successes, and keep your long-term goals in mind.

7. Stay Committed to Your Craft Continue to hone your skills, attend workshops, and stay active in your craft. Staying committed to your art shows resilience and dedication, essential qualities for a successful career in the performing arts.

8. Practice Self-Care Engage in activities that boost your mental and emotional well-being. Whether it’s a hobby, exercise, or simply taking time to relax, self-care is vital in maintaining your resilience in the face of rejection.

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