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note that he fully admitted, when i frantically emailed about the massive leak, that the reason is that he left the sink running. it was his fault and he has mentioned that HE LEFT THE SINK RUNNING in multiple emails.

so today we finally, FINALLY got all the work done, the fresh paint is drying as i type this. and my landlord decides to send me a wrap-up email for the whole process, which is of course multiple paragraphs long because he always does that but the line that really stuck out to me in this whole thing was this lovely sentence:

YOU.............

For weeks my mother has been insisting that I should do two subjects next semester, and telling me that I’d only be allowed to go back to Melb at all if I studied two subjects simultaneously.  And when I asked if I could study remotely for a sem and then finish my degree next year in Melb she complained about how inconvenient it’d be since we’ve already sorted accommodation

Anyway, I had a psych appointment today where my psych was like, ‘I’m concerned that if you go back to Melb next sem you’ll struggle a lot and not have an enjoyable time, since you’re already in the first stages of shutdown from stress, and it’d be very easy for you to fall into the pattern of shutting down due to being overwhelmed.  I think it’d be much better if you studied one subject from home this semester, and go back to Melb at the beginning of next year to finish your degree.  I’m happy to recommend this to your mother if you’d like me to.’

I wasn’t really going to take her up on it, since I didn’t want to deal with the emotional fallout of my mother being like, ‘you’re such a burden, this is so inconvenient, this is so annoying, you’re so uncooperative’ etc etc.  But I was curious abt how my mother would respond, so when I got back from my psych appointment, I told my mother, ‘My psych is very worried and she wants me to do one subject this semester from home, before finishing my degree next year.’

AND MY MOTHER, WHO HAS BEEN HIGHLY RESISTANT TO ALL OF MY SUGGESTIONS THAT I’D LIKE TO DO ONE SUBJECT.  WAS LIKE. ‘OH, THAT MIGHT BE BETTER ACTUALLY. SURE. LET’S TALK TO YOUR FATHER ABOUT IT TONIGHT’

And then had the gall to be like, ‘I wish you’d said you were struggling sooner.’  Like? I literally did?? I’ve been telling you for weeks that I’d prefer to do one subject since I think I’ll really struggle with two??? I’ve been saying I’m having a tough time and you ignored me and told me to let you know what date I’m going back to Melb to study next sem!

man that post going around with that high school guy who is crushing hard on a trans girl at his school and he’s just like ‘i don’t really mind if she has a penis i’d probably know better what to do with that anyways’ is still like. blowing my mind

like of course of course i’d heard from so many trans people before that if you just like someone for their genitals you don’t really like them etc. and it shouldn’t matter etc etc but i, like ........ was always just, really resigned to the fact that my genitals are what people are going to gender me by ??? ? ??? and i guess decide if they’re ‘allowed’ to be attracted to me ????????? which really resolved as like, me sometimes getting crushes on gay men and just being like ‘well /: there’s no way they’d ever be attracted to me anyways so /:’ cause yaknow.... god forbid a gay man be attracted to someone with a vagina

i literally never considered the possibility that there would be people who just straight up don’t care ????? and that i Deserve someone who straight up doesn’t care ? ???? like ???????????

sb: master zenyatta please impart your wisdom upon m– genji, barrelling in: LOOK AT THIS MEME