something to remember when being conscious about not using the words âwomenâ and âmenâ to refer to traditionally gendered thing is that you still have to pick your words carefully. generally, youâre going to want your language to form a tautology (ie, something that has to be true due to basic logic. âtrue is true.â red flowers are red. wet clothes are wet. tautologies.)
take the phrase âwomen menstruate.â do women menstruate? do ALL women menstruate? do ONLY women menstruate? no. so, how about âpeople with uterusesâ? do people with uteruses menstruate? do ALL people with uteruses menstruate? do only people with uteruses menstruate? (that last one might be sort of tricky so iâll provide an answer--people without uteruses who have estrogen-dominant systems actually can have a menstrual cycle and experience many of the same effects that estrogen-dominant people with a uterus experience!)
if youâre talking about something related to menstruation, youâre going to want to use the phrase âpeople who menstruate.â because there are cis women who donât menstruate, there are trans men who menstruate, there are people without uteruses who menstruate.... etc etc. but using the phrase âpeople who menstruateâ removes all ambiguity there. people who menstruate, menstruate. itâs a tautology. itâs true.
so if youâre talking about people with thick body hair, say âpeople with thick body hair.â if youâre talking about people who can get pregnant, say âpeople who can get pregnant.â etc etc etc. choose your words wisely or else you may not achieve the effect you were going for.