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My Mars & Pluto conjunct her Mars & Pluto in her 8H Scorpio & (Vice versa mine in 7H). Her Venus in my 8th .. & My sun & Venus in her 12H..

what you think ?👀

Hello love,

Hmmm... sounds like it's gonna be intense. Take this from a Scorpio/Martian-Pltuo native: Mars Pluto conjunctions in Synastry are incredibly passionate. We're talking, Mr. And Mrs. Smith intensity. Mars and Pluto are not soft planets - and in the enigmatic sign of Scorpio (plus 8th house), the two of you will likely feel very possessive over one another. On the bright side, Scorpio does rule things that are hidden/depths and everything to do with the psychological aspect of the human psyche. As a result, you might find yourselves sharing your deepest secrets to one another.

With all that 8th house energy, it's very possible there could be some past life debts that need to be paid in the present. I'd also look to see what your vertexes are doing to each other.

With 12th house synastry, be careful that you're not idealizing the other person too much. This can also indicate a relationship that can remain hidden or a secret. Idk why. But it's giving "secret affair" with those planets in that house. You can keep your relationship private without it being a secret. Be sure to be honest with one another, and DO NOT allow yourself to get provoked unnecessarily. Conjunctions are better than squares in terms of harmony, but they are still hard aspects. Tread lightly and be up front and honest. Don't play games, and definitely don't cheat.

Here are some resources that might be helpful to you:

Plutonic Obsession

Marriage/long term aspects in synastry

Best aspects in Synastry

Hello anon,

Yes, we are indeed "fucking" with Mars Quintile Mars in synastry,lol.

Here's why:

QUINTILES

Occur when two planets are approximately 72 degrees apart. It often appears as a five pointed star inside of a circle...

Quintile keywords: Ambition, opportunities, creation, impact, good vibrations.

While it is a minor aspect and not as strong as a trine or sextile, a quintile will have two natives feeling subtle positivity. This could manifest when being active together, sexually, when two of you converse or engage in lighthearted debate. The energy around this particular aspect is a smooth, energetic flow, but it does require a bit of extra effort into tapping into eat because of said subtlety. It is, however, regarded as a favorable aspect and way easier than the square which causes uncessary conflict and two folks getting aggravated quite easily with each other. It is also not as strong as the conjunction.

Regardless, it is definitely an aspect most astrologers would prefer over the stronger, more difficult ones.

When Someone’s Saturn is Forming a Harmonious Aspect to Your Mars...

(trine or sextile) they will undoubtedly know how to calm you down. This is because Saturn is the planet that rules grounded logic and the most developed form of maturity. When forming a smooth aspect to the planet of action, they can make even the most volatile of tempers see reason. They’ll be the ones who say

 “focus on the things you can control”.

As a result, you may find yourself having separation anxiety when they’re not around.

On the Other Hand, When Someone’s Saturn is Squaring Your Sun, Moon, or Your Mars...

you may experience getting your feelings hurt quite easily by them. It may often feel as though they are criticizing you or picking on you for shits and giggles. Always finding fault in what you do or making you feel as though what you do isn’t good enough. It’s important to have a strong sense of self if you have this in synastry with someone (platonic, familial, or romantic) otherwise, your self-worth could be affected.

I Feel Like This Isn’t Talked About Enough But Uranus Squaring Personal Planets...

Especially in synastry, can make two people have erratic responses to each other. Getting easily triggered or wanting to curse someone out when Uranus makes a square to the inner planets is very common. When Uranus is making a square to personal planets natally, this individual might be someone who has random outbursts. With Mars, it may have something to do with the temper. When the moon is involved, it may have something to do with their emotions. The fickle lover or the angry one moment, happy the next individual. To the Sun, this is the quintessential impulsive individual who cannot resist moving to the beat of their own drum. 

Capricorn Moons

Will use sarcasm to woo their love interest. The more they pick on you, the more they like you. Trust me.

Those With Uranus in their 11th house

might find themselves switching friend groups quite often throughout their lives. Consistency is not associated with Uranus the way it is with planets such as Saturn. As a result, this might be the social butterfly or the type to cut someone off at the drop of a hat.

Aries Moons

At their most underdeveloped can be the most insufferable brats. Often this is the person who was spoiled or coddled as a child and thinks it’s okay to have random outbursts or temper tantrums. The funny thing is, they’re over it in about a week or two. These individuals need to be careful, not everyone has such a short memory and they can find themselves alienating friends/loved ones and burning bridges at warped speed. 

Hurting Saturnian Dominants is NEVER a Good Idea

Why? Because Saturnian dominants are ruled by Lord of Karma. If you find yourself getting on one's bad side, it might be a good idea to see where their Saturn falls into your houses, this is where you’ll be affected the most. 1st house and your sense of self will be where you’ll reap what you sow. 2nd house, your coins might take a hit. 6th house, work, and routine might suffer or your health might decline. 8th house- YIKES. finger’s crossed they’re not vindictive. 10th house, welp, better protect your rep. Your public image may be at stake.

Leo’s With Their Sun at an Aquarian Degree [11°, 23°]

I’ve observed like to do things alone. As social as the sign ruled by the Sun is, at a Uranian degree, they will often prefer to be solo dolo. Concerts, traveling, etc. This is the individual that will bite off their left arm before they have a roommate.

Though Virgo’s are notoriously known for their detail-oriented habits..

If their 6th house is in Pisces (and/or afflicted), they can actually miss many details in their Sun placement should make them naturally inclined to. These are the folks who can be very lax when it comes to work and routine. Head in the clouds. “I’ll do it later” types. Some may even be quite lazy.

An Aries 6th House on the other hand...

Might find themselves very “high functioning” regarding work and routine. With Ram energy running the show, they hate to wait. Needs things done yesterday. And God forbid you dawdle around them. They will bull-rush you out of the way to do it themselves. 

Sagittarian Moons (and Occasionally Suns)

Need you to keep it light. If you’re to categorize your friends, these are the types you party with first and share deep heart to hearts with last. Not that they’re incapable of depth but more so they function better when they’re able to laugh and enjoy the free-spirited aspects that life has to offer. They are quite uncomfortable with the heaviness of darkness and deep emotion and you might find them trying to change the subject just to stay upbeat. If these natives sense any “depressive” energy, they will split immediately.

Taurean Placements

Though ruled by the most sensual planet Venus, I’ve observed can be quite repressed when talking or expressing their sexual sides. They prefer to keep that under lock-and-key. If they trust you, however, they’ll be more expressive about it. I find these sun/moon/and rising’s BIG connoisseurs of erotica and NSFW fanfiction, lol. They are also kings and queens of poker faces/RBF.

In addition, Taureans tend to be hyper-focused on money. Not in a 

“let's take over the world, Pinky” kind of way like Capricorns, but more so, worried they’ll never have enough (especially if one’s Chiron is in Taurus. Then finances/the material is where one wears their “deepest wound”.) Security is quite important to these folk. 

Back to Sagittarians

 if you hear a big booming voice or laugh, check to see if the culprit has their 2nd house, 3rd house, or Mercury in Jupiter’s sign. Jupiter rules expansion and if he’s touching the “voice” then he’ll likely expand it. A lot of singers, even if they’re soft-spoken, if they have Jupiter anywhere near their vocal cords will “project” more than normal. For example, Hayley Williams of Paramore fame has her Mercury at a Sagittarian degree. In addition, Jared Leto of 30 Seconds to Mars has his Mercury in Sagittarius. Just listen to “From Yesterday” or “The Kill”- you’ll see what I’m talking about.

Capricorn Venuses

Appreciate gifts. Both giving and receiving as their love language. In fact, most earth signs appreciate things of the material when it comes to their love languages. Solid things. Tangible. Very much about the senses. Something they can clock and document. They will know the price of everything you buy them. Not in a facetious way, they’ll literally google the shit you buy to see how much it costs. How much you spend on them, in their minds, reflects how much you ‘value’ them.

Gemini Moons

LOVE to chat (if underdeveloped that chatter will warp to gossip). They know everything. About everyone. If their moon is squaring their mercury, never tell them a secret, ever. However, if their moon is forming a harmonious aspect to Pluto, they may like to hear the Gossip but are better at keeping their mouths shut.

On a positive note, a Developed Gemini Moon is typically the smartest person in the room.

This is because their curiosity expands across many borders, kinda like Hermes/quicksilver himself. They are walking encyclopedias. Their minds are mutable which makes them masters of knowing a little bit about this and a little of that. A Jack of all mental trades, if you will.

Gemini’s in General

Tend to have very long and lithe fingers. Perfect muses for art/paintings. For example, Naomi Campbell is a Gemini and her features are quite aquiline. Angelina Jolie’s hands are quite prominent. I find them standing out (yes, even before her lips) in photographs. Michelle Pfeiffer of Scarface fame has a Gemini rising and her waif-like figure became the go-to-physique of thousands of women in the 80′s.

Having Plutonian Synastry with Someone...

But you’d prefer to keep things strictly platonic can be extremely difficult. This is because Pluto never likes to keep things surface level. That’s Venus’s job. Superficiality and the like. Pluto rules house 8. Death. It’s all about the depths. here. Typically, the plutonic relationships that omit anything romantic or sexual tend to take on a Psychologist/chiatrist-patient dynamic. Maybe you won’t fuck them, but you’ll kinda become their therapist (or vice versa)

In addition, Plutonic synastry might make you feel an unnerving attraction to someone you’d NEVER think you’d be into. You know in your gut you don’t want them/they’re not your type but any sign of them desiring someone else and you become territorial. 

Pluto’s like that.

Plutonic synastry between parent and child could make the Parent obsessed with their kid. Yes, to some level, most parents are obsessed with their babies but strong (conjunctions, squares, or oppositions) between a parent’s Pluto and a Child’s inner planets can make the parent overbearing, hyper-involved, or weirdly psychic to the child and their needs. Healthy boundaries are important.

Speaking of Boundaries...

Heavy Neptune in Romance (5th, 7th, 8th, 12th ) houses or touching Venus can make someone lack boundaries in love. This is the person who will text your boyfriend knowing he’s been with you for 5 years or might make up stories about all their romantic conquests knowing full well they’re a virgin. Adversely, people may find themselves victims of people lacking boundaries with them if they have Neptune in any of these houses. 

Neptune in the 2nd

can make one have trouble seeing their value.

Virgo Stelliums get revenge by picking you apart.

In addition, Virgo Mars men can easily appear emaciated. As hyper-focused as this sign is on health and wellness, they are naturally prone to thinner builds and might have to work overtime to bulk up or maintain weight.

Sex With Your Opposite Sign Can Be Life-Changing or Traumatizing.

Mars opposing Mars typically works well in the bedroom even if two people clash everywhere else outside of it. Though it’s a common conception that Mars in hard aspect to Mars would cause body rhythms to mismatch, the tension can make sex quite cathartic. Squares may take some time. this is not the soft, gentle type of love. It would be more hard and fast.

Moon Opposite Neptune

in the natal chart can make someone a class A daydreamer. The type to come up with the Disney/Pixar/Dreamworks level ideas and stories. This is an ideal placement for anyone wanting to go into the arts as a profession or even art/tech school like RISD or MIT. However, it can also cause someone to deal with lots of doubt and paranoia. The key to reconciling this energy is remembering to check that neptunian fog. Consciously realizing Neptune is debilitating your mindset and actively overcoming the illusory nature of this placement, and you’re halfway there. 

Moon opposite Neptune can cause lots of self-deception as well. I find it helps to step back and evaluate. Talk to yourself like you would someone else in the same situation. Document things that occur/bother you in a journal the way they happen, not the way you perceived them to happen. Doubt and insecurity die when truth/facts are present.

Gemini Midheaven's at Taurean Degrees [2° 14° 26°]

Often come across as very practical. These natives will not just write a book with Mercury ruling their 10th house, they'll write a series. The earth degree (and their Virgo Rising) aids them with consistency that Gemini's often lack. 

Those With Pluto in Hard Aspect to Lilith in The Natal Chart

Need complete freedom to express their sexual urges and instincts. They are formidable people who can often intimidate, whether they mean to or not. The drive is extremely powerful and these natives can have some of the highest libidos bar none. However, there can be a lot of trauma associated with sex. Often I've found that some of these natives have either been abused, have violent fantasies projected onto them, or can even be innocent when seeking love, but people/others taint or pervert things for them. If any of you watch HBO's 'Euphoria', Jules' character definitely has Pluto in hard aspect to Lilith (likely the square or opposition). 

Mars in the First House

in a female’s chart can add a masculine or “tougher”/”harder” exterior to their appearance. A sharper jaw, more muscle on the physique.

Whereas Venus

in the first house in a male's chart, can soften or add a more effeminate touch to their appearance. Longer lashes, smoother skin, less hair, etc.

Men With Mars in Libra

cannot stand to fight. Will try to find the diplomatic route before they ever through a punch. However, if said Mars is afflicted or squaring Pluto or Saturn, this “diplomacy” can take the form of cruel Justice. 

Cancer Suns 

can actually be intimidating. I think it’s a common thing to say Astro sites comment on how “nurturing” or “sweet” a Cancer is, but Crabs first instinct is to “protect”. First and foremost, themselves. Which means they may be hard to get to know at first. Can be mistaken for their cousin’s, Scorpios. I’ve often found there is an intense connection with the mother/mother figure as well. for example, 50 Cent is a Cancer and if any of you have watched his show “Power” or “Raising Kanan” (all based loosely on his life) there is a common thread where the main character is unusually close to their mother. To the point where the mother is privy or even an accessory to the protagonist’s crimes. There’s also an element of “I’ll kill to protect you.” 

Those With Cancer Midheavens

Can often wind up in careers where “security” is a theme. I.e “trust and safety”, ADT or executives at “Ring”. Many may even take jobs as police officers to “protect and serve”. Cancer’s mantra.

When it Comes to Sense of Humor...

Check to see whose Sun or Mercury forms a harmonious aspect to your Jupiter. Jupiter rules humor. In addition, Sun conjuncting or trining Mercury or Venus could indicate the same tastes regarding what makes you happy or what stimulates the mind.

Though Taureans are Earth Signs and Ruled by Venus

many of them do not like to be touched unless you have a close relationship to them.

Water Mercuries

 or those who have Mercuries in a water degree [ Cancer 4° 16° 28°, Scorpio 8 °, 20 °, or Pisces 12° 24° ] have very seductive voices. Haunting and kinda slick/silvery. For example, Michelle Pfeiffer's Mercury is at a Scorpio degree, Penn Bagley (Joe from You)’s Mercury is in Scorpio.

Mutable Mercuries (Virgo, Gemini, Sagittarius)...

I’ve found are very good at imitating accents

Those with Aries Venus or Moons 

love people fighting over them romantically. The competition [Mars] makes them feel desired. Everyone thinks Gemini or Leo is the least faithful, but I’ve often found Arians are more likely to cheat. Especially once they get bored.

Those with Venus in Scorpio or Venus Aspecting Pluto

Can find it difficult to feel good sexually if they are in the middle of one of their plutonic transformations. Let's say something traumatic has happened, it can go one of two ways- either they will abstain from sex completely and find it hard to even self-please OR they will use sex as a conduit for their grief.

If Virgo

is in the mix, this might manifest as difficulty desiring intimacy if they have gained (too much) weight or lost (too much) weight.

Speaking of Weight...

I was quite surprised by this sample from my research, but I’ve found that men with Mars in Libra are very into weight-lifting/bodybuilding. I surmise it has something to do with the “scales” if you will and Venus being about aesthetics/attractiveness. Mars is action and Libra is about equilibrium and symmetry. Translation: Mars [Body, drive] + Libra [balance, beauty]= gym rat.  

Contrary to Popular Belief

As opposed to the 11th house, you might be better off looking at your 4th house sign or ruler of your 4th when it comes to friends. Your 4th is typically the sign where your most unexpected friends will come from. Your soul family. 4th House sign in Aquarius? Give a chance to your local Uranian Alien. 4th in Aries? Martians will probably come to your defense at the drop of a hat. It's the "kinship" theme of the 4th.

Since We're On The Topic Of The 11th

You can look to this house to see what attitude your admirers will take towards you. Virgo 11th and your admirers will analyze and dissect your or your work. They will drink in you/your creative property and memorize it like broadway script lines. Aries 11th and your admirers will go to war for you. Leo 11th and your admirers will boast about you. Worship you like you're Apollo himself. 11th House in Gemini and your admirers might flirt with you, want to chat with you always, or send you constant messages/letters. They will always want to communicate with you somehow. 11th House in Capricorn and your admirers may try to pay for things for you. Take care of you. Keep you financially stable. 11th house in Taurus, they'll probably feed you or buy you gifts, etc.

12th House Composite Planets

Can make people unsure of why they’re drawn to each other, they just know that they are. They can even feel ashamed or fear the attraction they feel for the other person. Like this unconscious guilt about it. This is because 12th house rules fear.

Saturn in the 5th

can make someone the referee amongst their peers/friends. They are usually the one’s breaking up the rumbles

Venus in harmonious aspect to Saturn

(and especially if forming a midpoint/aspecting the rising)  is often indicative of someone who will age like fine wine. Very gracefully.

Mercury and Pluto Combined Can Make People Very Popular.

 I know this doesn’t seem like a thing and these two planetary energies combined may seem more loner, but popularity doesn’t always have to mean “well-liked”. Even if they are well liked, it’s possible there is a fascination with everyone wanting to get to know this person. Digging deep (Pluto) for intelligence (Mercury) on them. Mafia Boss John Gotti had his Sun in Scorpio and Moon in Gemini and was the most popular Don in the underworld. People loved him and hated him and even my mother to this day whenever he shows up on television spits off random trivia about the guy.

Those Who Have the Majority of their Inner Planets in the Last Decan of the Signs

are probably the people who come off as “mature for their age” or “old souls”. The babies that barely cried or the children who started speech early.

Aries Sun, Mercury and Rising are ELITE  at holding their own in an argument.

In a woman’s chart, I’ve observed Moon (reproduction) squaring Saturn (restriction/blockage) being and indicator of fertility issues.

Composite Pluto in the 2nd

 Usually indicates a couple that is possessive of each other. Not in the 1st house way where they want to consume you/your body but in a “you belong to me/ you’re my property” kind of way. It will be less toxic if the aspects to Pluto are harmonious but if there are afflictions to the house or the planets involved, two people may see each other as “trophies” as opposed to people. Lots of addiction and gluttony here.

Pisces 5th House or Moon in the 5th or 4th in the Composite

is quite sweet and dreamy. People will have a pure sacrificial love for each other.

If Saturn is in Your 1st House

you might come off with the temperament of  a Cap rising and only feel good about yourself if you are conquering or excelling somewhere in life. No phlegmatic energy here. Owning your own business might be a life long dream and where you get your self-esteem.

Having Your 4th House in a Fixed Sign

can be an indicator of wanting to control your home environment. It could be that you like things impeccably clean, or you could like everything to stay in the place you found it, even if things are messy. Fixed 4th house likely inherited this trait from a parent (usually the mother.)

Asteroid Eros or Asteroid Amor on your rising or touching any angle

Can make people fall in love with you quite easily. The Sun in the first house is also a culprit behind people being fascinated or obsessed with your “light”.

Men with harsh aspects to Lilith can be abusive towards women because they see the female as a natural “enemy”.

Fixed 10th houses

 likely have a desperate need to control how they are publicly perceived.

I see a very common trend of people marrying/ winding up with

 someone who’s has their Sun or Rising in the sign of the other person’s Venus, descendant sign, Juno or opposite sun sign.

So we know that Jupiter returns every 14 years to have you reflect on your growth and maturity and Saturn every 28-30 to reflect on your accomplishments and your goals but the Lunar Nodes are rarely spoken about...

The Lunar Nodes meet up every 18 years to press the restart button your trajectory in life. You’ll sit a a proverbial crossroads and begin to get all Socrates about your life. You’ll question everything. What you thought life was about may be completely shaken up. At 9 years, it’s the mid point of this return and the transit NN links up with transit SN. It’s a literal soul check and can feel quite unnerving. But you come out of it with a whole new outlook. Examples could be, thinking you’re one orientation at one point then realizing you might subscribe to another. Realizing you don’t want to live in the same country anymore. Your belief system/religion might change. Your career may take a whole new life of it’s own. Nodal returns can be mistaken for a Plutonic level transformations so be sure to clock them in your life/chart to see what might be in store.

Happy Scorpio SZN, stargazers.

A little PSA to remind you of all that the closer we get to the the full solar eclipse in Scorpio on October 25th, the heavier and stranger the energy will become. This will/can manifest as:

Weird dreams (but pay attention to them)

Major shifts

Random information downloads

Secrets revealed

Increase in intuition/connection. ( The veil is always thinnest around this time of year)

Not our first rodeo, team-but if you stay ready you'll never have to get ready. The new moon in Scorpio is also happening on Tuesday. Mars' day. Use Mars' energy to manifest what you want with action.

Lilith Square Venus Synastry Brings a lot of sexual attraction between two people. If the man is Lilith, he may try to live out his sexual fantasies on Venus. Since Lilith is also a bit of an abuser, with the square, two people might find themselves having a love/hate relationship. The Lilith person (in the case, the man) would want Venus to live up to his sexual ideations and may even want to live his perversions out through her. Things he wouldn't want to do with anyone else. Now Venus will find herself becoming increasingly attached to Lilith (regardless of gender). I've said a few times now, that Lilith is the female Pluto on steroids so if you know anything about Plutonic/Venus or 2nd house/8th house axis relationships, that may give you a bit of an idea. Lilith being a non-conformist by nature will do her best to maintain her independence in the relationship with Venus. Venus will feel incredibly spellbound. Lilith is this dark temptation Venus will crave even when it's agonizing. There's something that feels good about Lilith's sting to Venus. Something unquenchable about the addictive stimulants Lilith feeds her. The relationship between a Lilith Square Venus couple can also feel quite manic. When the highs are high, we're talking Mount Everest but when they're low? The pits of Dante's Inferno.

One word. Spicy.

You've got Venus and Mars energy zig-zagging here. Taurus and Libra Venuses in mutual reception here energetically. Both appreciate the finer things in life. Both are very much about the senses. Touch, smells, aesthetics, beauty, etc. The love languages are quite similar. It will be easy for two people to express their affection. Instinctually, because both signs are ruled by Venus, the expression will be almost mirrored. But Taurus Venus will provide the stability while Libra proveds the beauty and fun. It would be like, for a party, one partner provides the funds and venue for the dinner party while the other plans the menu, guest list and decor. A very good partnership.

Now the for the sexual aspect, you've got Mars ruling both sexual planets/Mars'. Scorpio dual ruled by Pluto and Mars and Aries ruled by the ram himself. The bedroom while be consistently active. The neighbors will know your name. Scorpio Mars will be able to handle Aries' aggression and multiple round affinity and Aries will appreciate Scorpio's intensity (and pain tolerance). Both individual's body rhythms will match well. Both people will not judge the other for having a high drive. Believe it or not, these two Mars' are pretty much the only pairing that's able to get on each other's level (besides Capricorn/or maybe Taurus Mars).

Ehhh... 🤔

More like Secret (12th house) sex (Mars). I've seen this more than anything. Often found in partnerships where people are having affairs or relationships that have to be kept under wraps.

Sex that is only dreamt or thought of but doesn't actually happen.

Sex that only happens once.

Sex that can be highly addictive (12th house rules addictive states) to an unhealthy level/sex with no boundaries (not in a good way).

Two people who are scared (12th house rules fears) of fucking for whatever reason.

And lastly, perhaps sex that feels unfulfilling. 12th house holds back/makes things murky.

Could you please tell me what’s you take on sun in 12th in synastry ? ( the house person is kind of famous/ popular and we are both private…but is there more to this placement than this ?)

Venus in the 12th House Synastry

When someone's Venus falls into the other person's 12th house, things feel very ethereal. It's almost a spiritual experience and can feel unreal. Since Venus is the plant of love, beauty, values, and things we appreciate, and the 12th house, ruled by Neptune is the planet of fantasy, illusion, spirituality, deception, and self-sabotage, relationships with this overlay can have highs and lows. Love can feel fantastic here, the stuff of dreams. Literally the kind of things that happen only when you're asleep or the things you daydream about when you're on the train on your way to work. You [as Venus] become less and less self-focus and transmit all of that focus onto the 12th house person. Remember, with Neptune/the 12th House, there's always this theme of "sacrifice". As a result, you might find yourself losing small bits of yourself in this relationship/situationship. Venus becomes very "selfless". There's so much acceptance of the 12th house person because they are just perfect to Venus. So much so that a lot of enabling can occur. Neptune is also the house of the hidden so in synastry, this relationship can be a secret. It can be a big indicator of a secret affair or a mistress/paramour situation. Venus might feel that the 12th house is hiding the romance from others or keeping things under wraps for some reason. There can also be an unrequited love thing going on with Venus in the 12th house synastry. You, as Venus, might love the 12th house person but they might not return your affections, Venus may hide their feelings from the 12 house, or Venus might love the 12th house person while the 12th house has no idea who you even are [not the rule but often seen]. The positives are that there can be a spiritual connection between the two of you. Sexually, things can feel downright tantric. The bond can feel so magnetic it can feel addictive. And of course, it will, because Neptune and the 12th house rule addictions. Since the 12th house is also about secrets, this overlay can have two people share some of their deepest secrets with each other. The traumas and abuses they've faced will be revealed to each other which can make two people feel even more bonded. I do have to warn you though, the romance itself can be ephemeral at best unless there's some healthy Saturn involved for longevity. In addition, this aspect can make two people can go from lovers to enemies once the romance has died. 12th house rules house of hidden enemies. Betrayal or backstabbing can be a theme. The 12th is also the house of undoing. Take care to be very aware of where you could be self-sabotaging, where the 12th house person could be self-sabotaging, or where both of you could be sabotaging each other and the relationship. The 12th House person can also feel that there isn't a genuine vibe to Venus. Like you might be something they want but what you tell them and what you show them don't add up. The classic actions Vs. words dilemma. Be sure to look at what venus is doing in the natal chart and what planets she's aspecting in synastry to see how she will behave in the partner's 12th house. If afflicted natally, Venus can be a bit selfish, manipulative, and perhaps inconsiderate towards the 12th house person. Using their weaknesses that they've expressed in private against them. Like I always say though, this can go both ways since it's synastry. Overall this is the common dynamic with this connection. Take care to mind the energy here and always strive to be as honest as possible with Neptune involved anywhere in synastry or composite.