nos últimos tempos me atrivui alguns diagnósticos algumas vezes. e aí depois bate culpa tipo ah to pesquisando sobre esse diagnóstico pra tentar me entender, mas to me apropriando pq nao tenho.

They [borderliners] express affection more readily and can be very playful and intoxicating companions. But everything they do for/towards the other is experienced by them as deeply symbolic and almost sacred. It is utterly devastating for them to realise that the other person might not want what they are being offered, and might fear being engulfed, because they don’t know what to offer instead. That’s all they’ve got. They also can’t see that the intensity of their ‘love’ actually obliterates their partner’s humanity, which is what makes it not-love.