I am afraid of buying a recast. I really want a bjd but the legit ones are totally out of my reality. They are too expensive! So I realized that a recast may be the solution. For the other hand, I'm afraid that all the hate and bullying could ruin my experience. What should I do?
There are some cheap legits that cost the same as a recast (like ResinSoul, Bobobie, Mirodoll, FantasyDoll, Impledoll has some good pricing too, and many others if you settle for âsmaller dollsâ, also Alice Collectionâs usually host events from different companies and some are pretty cheapâŚ), but if you donât like their sculpts, then you shouldnât buy something you donât like just because âyouâre afraidâ. There is hate (not going to lie), but pros also protect each others, we are one of the most welcoming and warm doll communities out there these days. We know itâs not âabout the price tagâ, but the love you put on your doll. So having that in mind we dedicate the time to help each other. The only times we rant are when antis attack us, but you can join safe prorecast forums to meet people and interact there, you can also find more people who have the same interest on dolls and donât care about recasts, even a quick search on Facebook of the words âbjd recastâ and youâll find plenty of recast friendly groups.
âWhat should you do?â, well, antis (or âpro artistsâ, as they like to be called), will tell you that you should buy legit, that there is NO other chance and no other choice, and if you do take a different choice youâll be âa thieveâ (even when youâre literally paying for the doll) and âa scumâ. That you donât deserve to live and your doll itâs trash. That you should settle for a cheaper legit âor save for 5 yearsâ. That this is a luxury hobby and âyou donât NEED a dollâ (just as much as they donât need their knockoffs Gucci purses). BUT, If you then ask a pro recast (pro dolls, all of them), he will tell you that itâs your money and you can do whatever makes you happy with it because you earn it. That youâre not instantly âa bad personâ or âa thiefâ because you own a knockoff doll (just as many other people itâs not horrible for downloading a torrent or buying knockoff perfumes), that no amount of ârecastingâ has ever killed âa starving artistâ or âshut down a legit factoryâ, needless to say this will NOT âbring down the apocalypse to the end of the hobbyâ as some hardcore antis will tells you. And that overall, this is about dolls, not about people. That youâll be happy with your doll and if anyone has a problem with it, itâs their problem, not yours.
The ultimate choice has to be yours and come from your heart, and I know this is hard because of all the âbrainwashâ the antis do to new people, in this same post Iâm convinced youâll see some comments from antis telling you to âdo the right thingâ (that translate into âdo what I say you should doâ), so if youâre easy influentiate, I recommend you not to ask for (or read) opinions. You need to decide it yourself, even if youâre on a vulnerable spot, even if you donât want the hate, antis are elitists, and will find a way to hate on you even if you go for a cheap legit anyways, might be because you make your own clothing and âit looks cheapâ, or you made your wig and âitâs crappyâ, or your own eyes and âthey seem like made by a 3yr oldâ or a lot, a LOT of harmful shit you donât deserve but youâll get anyway because for them itâs not about dolls but about âto be better than the others with what they can pay forâ (that happens to be dolls in this case)⌠so, if youâre going to deal with criticism and hate either way, you should buy (with your money) what makes you happy, not what makes others happy. And having this in mind, Iâm sure youâll take the right choice (I have some beautiful cheap legits and some awesome recasts, I get hate for both of them, but they make me happy, so Iâm talking by experience).