#bisayablog

Di sya moabot sa usa ka taw as a whole. Like, oh yes she’s not judgmental anymore so she’s mature because psychology says, “maturity is when you stop judging others”, but no. Yes she stopped talking about other ppl behind their back but still she does not know how to consider the two sides of every story. So what’s that?

When you say maturity, it’s hard to explain because we might say mature nata because nakaya nato ang certain circumstance nga niabot sa atong life pero sa ubang butang we can’t. We have different flaws. We have strengths and also weaknesses.

Everything we have experienced taught us how to be strong. Either mentally, emotionally or physically . Some would say or might think they are mature enough because of what they have experienced pero that’s not enough. Maturity is not about being able to cope with a certain situation nga lisod or challenges because you have encountered them before. I think that’s flexiblity or nakatuon nagyud ka.