#binary myth

A person on social media wrote to me, “I am male?” When I asked if they were a man. I then told them this describes their endosex sex traits since they did not say they had intersex physiology. Then I asked: “What is your gender identity?” I still do not know this person’s gender identity. They would not describe it to me. You see, like most everyone born endosex and cisgender, they were…

We can be born with #endosex variations or #intersex variations.

BOTH can be assigned wrong at birth because of the invention of sex and gender being conflated as one and the same. In reality, millions of people do not match their sex to their gender and will go against binary notions.

All children should receive Self-determination of their gender identity. No child should be forced to abide to binary notions that force that child onto a surgery table to match binary notions, or forces that child to live the wrong gender. Our genitals do not define our gender identity.

It's up to you how you define yourself. Your true gender identity is 💯 up to you and not society, your parents or the government.

As people we can grow up to be men, women, both, or neither and all the many ways to describe our personal gender identity. Some of us will want surgeries and some of us will not. We are all valid.