That friend who takes days to reply
So after making my brief introductory post, let’s talk about the people in our life who takes sooooooo long to reply. Worst case is that they will reply after 2 days or after a week! For me, it will really hurt less if that person just does not reply at all but delaying your reply for days?? It just makes me feel that I’m not important at all! It just really sucks you know.
Whoops! I know that each and every one of us has those times that we tend to delay our replies or we don’t reply at all but if you’re gonna delay your reply in days, might as well not reply at all. Let’s learn to respect the person who we chose to “ignore” the text so that they will feel less shitty at all because it really feels that you do not prioritize that person at all. I know that we all have those people that we prioritize more than others but at least we should learn to at least be respectful of their feelings, right? I had this friend who I texted to hang out since it’s been ages since we last saw each other and she replied after 2 or 3 days! Her reply was “Sorry for the late reply! I just saw your text. I was not able to hold my phone for days!” Yeah right. Knowing that person who can’t live without checking her social media accounts. And she did that to me twice! I called off our friendship after the 2nd attempt cause I don’t deserve that feeling lack of importance. I deserve to be at least respected. It’s really insensitive guys. And after that incident, I promised myself that if I’m not gonna reply immediately, I would at least not let my reply past 24 hrs after that person texted.
This is really making me wonder why some people are extra shitty than the others.