#ben defender

Chip who could have been a big brother was not used. Left out the movies completely.

Emir and Ahkio his best friends are background characters and aren't given any lines or interactions with Ben.

His PARENTS are UNFIT DNA DONORS who LET him get talked down to and ripped into!

The movies did not give Ben ONE person from Auradon that supported him and was in his corner, no questions asked. No one told Ben he was doing the right thing, giving the VK's a chance. No one had his back or was willing to see if the idea rose or fell. No one believed in Ben

When Ben finally does get one person who was/is willing to support him and believe in him, (Mal) she's called EVIL AND TOXIC and everyone is trying to pull/get him away from her!

He is a victim of two love spells. A love spell is the Disney equivalent to a DRUG! A DRUG IMPAIRS your mind and TAKES AWAY your CONSENT and CONTROL.

Doing DIM was NOT. BEN'S. FREE. CHOICE. Dancing with Uma was NOT. BEN'S. FREE. CHOICE.

I am serious! Ben gives Mal gifts he's accused of love bombing her. But if he didn't people would say their in a cold relationship and he doesn't care about her!

Ben objects to Mal spelling him during their fight he's called ABUSIVE and NARCISSISTIC. But if he'd ALLOWED that he'd probably be called a lap dog who can't stand up for himself!

People say that Ben didn't try to be understanding of Mal. Like WHAT?! Ben was the ONLY one who tried to understand how pressured Mal was! evie LAUGHS at her! Carlos, brushed her off, Jay knew NOTHING of the whole situation!

Ben is accused of Hoovering (a manipulation tactic used in toxic or abusive relationships to "suck" a former partner back into contact, similar to a vacuum cleaner. It involves intense emotional manipulation—like love bombing, fake crises, or guilt-tripping—often by individuals with narcissistic tendencies to regain control, validation, or power. for people who don't know) and being pushy when he goes after his girlfriend to apologize after a fight. But when he DIDN'T go after Audrey he was accused of ABANDONING her

Someone please tell me: WHAT DOES THE DESCENDANTS FANDOM WANT FROM BEN?!

Every time he tries to do something the fandom TEARS HIM TO SHREDS! This SWEET, KIND, EMPATHIC LOVED STAVED boy is one of the BEST if not THE best characters the Descendants materiel HAVE!

AND HE IS HATED FOR IT!!!!!

For NO GOOD REASON at that! His father seemingly does not have a medical condition that would stop him ruling. His father is not dead. His father wants to PLAY GOLF and go on CRUISES!

Does that justify him being love spelled/drugged? ABSOLUTELY NOT!

If they have reservations about the VK program, fine. That is understandable given the history. No one is actually asking them to support the VK's.

But when they STAND THERE NOT TWO FEET AWAY AS ANOTHER B*** of an ADULT (and her teen back up) tears into THEIR SON, and say NOTHING! That is when they cross the line to HATEABLE, in fact LOATHEABLE UNFIT PARENTS!

FORGET the fact that Ben is the future king, whose coronation is the next day. FORGET the fact that he brought some people that no one really trusts over. At that moment on Family Day. Ben was a SIXTEEN-YEAR-OLD, A MINOR, A CHILD! That was getting ATTACKED by an ADULT and his OWN. D*** . PARENTS did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to DEFEND him! They stood there AGREEING with the person who was TEARING THEIR SON APART, even when he was turning to them for HELP!

And then they have the audacity to BLAME Ben for the whole situation! I mean....JUST WHO LET THESE TWO BE PARENTS?! Ben should DISOWN himself and be adopted by another family! He should have never spoken to his DNA DONORS AGAIN after Family Day!

Sorry for the caps lock guys...I just...I have strong feelings about this. Especially when something leaves my Benny looking like THIS: