#bees thoughts

I think there’s been too many things that point towards the situationship then relationship. A few points are: Joe never accommodates OP (she always goes to him), he doesn’t respect her (otherwise he wouldn’t be having models in his Instagram comments), he wouldn’t be actively trying to pursue other women, he wouldn’t refuse to acknowledge the nature of the relationship in public and private, OP is constantly trying to stay in his orbit even when he doesn’t bring her (Kentucky Derby, Miami F1, and Met Gala afterparty). She is trying to chase something he hasn’t given in her in 2 years, and clearly isn’t going to give her which is the Gf title. He tolerates her enough to get what he wants but doesn’t respect her or like her enough to seriously date her. He always walks away from her, never waits for her and she has to run after him, he doesn’t care how she feels (clearly cause she’s crashing out left and right). He’s a single guy posting thirst traps because that’s what he is. I think this past weekend unfolded with Todd inviting her to the event and Joe being like “well you can stay if you want, doesn’t matter to me”. However because she’s desperate she stayed. That pic of the table, a dog is sitting next to him and she is so far on the end of the table away from everyone else, and he’s munching on crawfish. Like OP that man doesn’t care about you, let him go.

Also, sorry last point. I feel that once the break-in case is done, he’ll finally kick her to the curb because she is a listed witness and tied to the case. Once it’s down then all ties can be cleanly broken. She’s definitely not the girl he’s gonna marry, because he wouldn’t want his daughter to be like her, no man would.

Thank you for being a safe space to vent!

First off it warms my heart that my blog is a safe place for you to vent! It is truly an honor! I want my blog to be a safe space for everyone to express how they feel and not feel gaslit into believing the false narratives being shoved down our throats constantly.

I am a firm believer that in every area of life logic and reasoning is needed. It’s important as a society that we have people who can think for themselves, express their opinions , research and use logic to form their opinions. Growing up many of the adults in my life always reminded me to educate and inform my self on all sides of arguments and situations before forming my own opinions on the matter. We need more people that are not easily swayed and can think for themselves. Emotions can be deceiving so it’s important to not always be led by only your emotions but also take facts and logic into consideration.

Also you clocked this so well. I agree with the points you mentioned. You also ate with that last part about him not wanting his future daughter to be like her!

You can ask any of my close mutuals and they can vouch for me when I say that I have been saying all of the same things you mentioned to them for months. I think the same thing about her being a key witness to the break- in is the reason she is still around and as soon it gets settled he will most likely break ties with her.

The dynamic between them is toxic on both ends for both of them, there is no denying that. I still think this is a Situationship and not a relationship. The more we see, the more it clear it becomes to me that whatever this is it’s not a serious relationship.

He said it himself last year in his interview with Kyle Brandt that he’s a pretty straightforward person and people usually know where they stand with him . I am not making excuses for Joe by any means, but I also want to add that I don’t think Joe intentionally goes out of his way to treat her badly. I don’t think that he is intentionally being an asshole or dishonest with her by any means. I think it naturally comes across that he treats her badly because he has no interest in her so he treats her accordingly. And because she is not his girlfriend he’s not going to treat her like she is. I think he has been very honest with her from the beginning about his boundaries, what he expects from this dynamic and what this is to him. And I think she has refused to accept the situation as what it is and is constantly pushing boundaries and trying to pressure him into doing what she wants, and thinks that she can get him to change his mind if she “tries” hard enough. This is a man who never settles, we see the tenacity and passion he has, we see his work ethic. From what we have seen, He doesn’t settle on the field or anywhere else in his life, so he definitely is not going to settle for her. Joe has been very consistent in the way he goes about things reguarding this situationship. The entire time he has not changed up once, and that speaks volumes.

This is not healthy for either of them. But at the same time they both are allowing this to happen. She is constantly disrespecting herself by chasing a man who has made it very clear he doesn’t care about or want her. And he is allowing her to disrespect him. He allows her and her team to use him for pr and control the narrative, and at the end of the day he is still putting up with her antics. His actions show that he is single. It’s clear that He got out of a long term relationship and just wants to have fun and isn’t looking for anything serious right now . He is focused on his career and there is nothing wrong with that. It’s not wrong for a single man to act single. They each allow this and have the choice to walk away but for some reason they both don’t.

If he shows up to the foundation event, I definitely think he will wear one of his iconic graphic tees. It would even be cool if he wears an LSU t shirt since it’s in Baton Rouge.

As long as it’s not the met gala or some function where he has to be dressed to the nines, then I think he will always wear an outfit that is true to himself and who he is. And let’s face it Joe loves to be casual, becuse that is who he is. 9/10 times he is well put together. I love that he stays true to himself no matter what! As much as I have a love- hate mindset towards those rubber bracelets he wears, I love that he is authentic to himself and doesn’t give a damn what others say or do.

Good for OP does she need a cookie or a sticker for that?

This explains all the sudden pap walks and PR moves her and her team have been making at the expense of Joe and his reputation. And before people start with this BS , I don’t think Joe is on board with it at all. his behavior, reactions and body language in every pap walk and sighting proves it. It is clear that her and her team were very calculated with their recent PR blitz and shoving their narrative and propaganda down our throats since the pool party.They are trying to make it so that when you look her up nothing about her past shows up instead it’s just her “relationship” with Joe.

Unpopular opinion: I like Lucy, don’t get me wrong here at all. But Lucy Hale fell off after PLL and the hating game. She isn’t as big of a name as she used to be and the rest of the cast in this movie doesn’t seem to be well known either. So this isn’t really some big accomplishment or big break for OP. I have a feeling her past is going to come back to haunt her worse because of the possible attention she might get from this movie.