To that anon that asked where ur confidence comes from
Little gray guy has a point and I find myself seeing it in my head when I’m down about myself lol but when you start teaching yourself to be like ‘maybe I am a baddie’ and pretend like u don’t care you’ll start seeing how messed up our views of beauty are and how much fun you have not caring what other people think about you if that makes sense idk if that’s u meant but yea confidence comes when u stop caring what society expects of you
Oh shit, I love this so much?? Thank you for this addition, babe! You know what, I say it all the time that it didn’t even occur to me that it’s part of the whole confidence thing: who cares what people think!! Do what you want, wear what makes you feel good, there’s no need to explain yourself if you know you’re a good person.
People can think what they want but they aren’t gonna be there at the end of the day. They have their own lives to live. If anything, they need to check themselves if they’re judging all the time🤷♀️ Just be you!