Yes, people who do not have a uterus should not be talking over those who do regarding uterus related reproductive care. HOWEVER you can say that without referring to people by their agab. "Assigned [gender] at birth"s is so fucking dehumanizing and you need to stop pretending like an event that happened when someone was a baby inherently impacts their personality, thoughts, actions, and lived experiences. It's literally terf shit.

Yes, people who do not have a prostate should not be talking over those who do regarding prostate exams. AGAIN you can say this WITHOUT reducing people to the gender they were assigned at birth.

That doesn't begin to touch on the fact that not everyone who is assigned either way has the same primary or secondary sex characteristics because sex (as a binary) is not real.

I'm begging my fellow transmascs to stop referring to others as "amabs" when you mean "people who don't have a uterus". There are people who were assigned amab who have a uterus, and when you go "but I'm not talking about them", you're using the same exact argument as the people that say they weren't talking about transmascs when they talk about "hypotheticals" regarding men who can get pregnant.

Do as I say not as a do.

Don't drink caffeine before going to bed.

That's a bad idea

Even if you have ADHD and caffeine actually makes you tired.

Just a bad idea.

policing the identities and basic autonomy of people you share community with is exactly what homophobic and transphobic legislation has been consistently and cruelly advocating for. i mean how can you repeat classic terf rhetoric like “protecting women’s spaces” or “men are invading women’s spaces” and think you’re doing something positive or even remotely progressive? are you going to start asking people to define what a woman is next? gonna demand that girls- sorry, “non men” wear pink and boys wear blue so we know what everyone’s genitals are?

it baffles me as someone deeply swept up in this during quarantine that anyone still cares, but especially when IRAN WAS FUCKING BOMBED AND THERE IS STILL AN ACTIVE GENOCIDE OCCURRING. This is NOT one of those issues you can hold in equal regard or play the “care about two things at once” card for. This fundamentally does not matter in the midst of everything else that is happening in the US, in Palestine, in Iran, and literally every other country that has suffered under apartheid occupation.

You think you’re a modern day brick-throwing activist championing for the rights of your people with online arguments and insulting people for being nonconforming (in the nonconformity community? more than likely. ), but if you were alive just a little before or during the gay liberation movement you would be on the floor of the Stonewall inn sucking pig dick.

Do you know why you can publicly tell people your sexuality? Do you know who designed the lesbian flag in your profile picture? Do you know how any progress was made for you to comfortably and openly be queer? It was made by your boogeymen, polyamorous weirdos and contradictory label havers and neopronoun users and slur reclaimers and all other people who didn’t conform the way cishets and now you, a fellow queer person, are trying to pressure them to.

I AM MEAN YOU FUCKING BITCH. WHY DONT YOU COME OVER HERE AND GET OFF ANON INSTEAD OF ACTING LIKE IM SOME VICTIM. I AM MEAN. IF I HAD A PROBLEM WITH IT I WOULD TELL RILEY.

I DONT NEED YOUR BITCH ASS BEING MEAN TO MY MOOTIES ON MY BEHALF. ITS NOT NECESSARY.