Hiya, Batty! Some Nanami/Hairi, please!!
4: Who initiates affection? Why does the other not initiate affection as much?
10: Do they share any hobbies or interests? How do these things bring them together?
12: Do they have a difficult time when separated from each other, or are they fairly independent?
17: How well do they communicate? Are they open with their feelings/thoughts or more reserved? Why?
28: Whoβs the better chef? Do they cook for the other?
Hey Salty! I am so glad you asked, I am dying for some Nanami comfort right now.
4: Nanami feels very sweet and affectionate to me. Someone who likes to court a person like a gentleman. I think he'd initiate affection most often and Hairi will often only do it when she has the spoons. She has a lot of sensory things and such that she's dealing with often.
10: They indulge in each others hobbies, but they like their own things. Nanami will listen to Hairi's new music and Hairi will try whatever Nanami makes. Because she knows he wouldn't force her to eat something that will make her too upset (food sensory issues). They may do both. Attempt a new recipe together while playing Hairi's music in the kitchen, laughing at the small mistakes she'll make or commenting on the melodies. Maybe they'll end up stepping away from their cooking to take each other in their arms and dance off to the music just to stare at each other for a moment.
12: They're fairly independent. Hairi prefers to work with him and she enjoys being with him a lot. Nanami prefers to work alone, but he loves being with her too. They handle being apart just fine, but they would be much happier to be together. Save for the dangerous stuff, which is why Nanami wants her to stay back.
17: Nanami is very straight forward and Hairi is kinda blunt so I think they'd be pretty good at communicating. Nanami might be more reserved about his more complex feelings, but they'd hash out problems pretty quickly. If Hairi needs to (I.E. it's not a problem that can be solved or something) she is good at asking for her space and Nanami is good about letting her have it. Vice versa as well.
28: Nanami, definitely! Haha, Hairi knows how to make her favorite things and some basic breakfast stuff, but Nanami enjoys cooking as a relaxing activity so he normally takes care of it and he is very good!