#ava talks

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Gojo would go out and buy cool toys or things that a regressor of his would love

This man isn’t afraid to spoil you now and then. You wanna buy a paci? He’s bought you a full set of pacis with it without gems

Loves to make regressors laugh with jokes and such

He has a nice voice for reading stories to help a little one get a good night’s sleep

Huddling within blanket forts or tents

Definitely carries you to bed to tuck you in snug if you fall asleep in his arms

Apple slices. daifuku and kikufuku mochi are his favorite treats to make for regressors

Sometimes you and him would mess with Nanami when there’s not a lot to do

With all the plushies he gives you, don’t be surprised to find a section of your room stacked with them.

(Reblogs are encouraged)

It's been a while (At least for me, I took a break-) since I've been on here!

Well- kinda in a sense, For like posting. I just found out a couple of days ago that I was on here looking at tadc Art and Sonic Memes 😭 (There goes taking a break..)

But without getting beside myself, I just wanted to let you guys know I'll be letting go of this Blog and moving onto a new one. Not only because I will be doing new things. (I'll still be doing tadc and other things i like don't worry-) But because there are things that I had did on here, said on here before that I am not proud of, nor aligned with my beliefs. And want to let go of that.

Leaving this behind will not change what I did or what mark I left, but I do feel like It'll give me a new start. Taking a break from tumblr and coming back played a big roll in how I perceived what I did on tumblr and how I acted, and also the effect it had on me.

Being in a new mindset, I want to do things differently from now on. And I want to do my best to keep my attitude in check and be more respectful and civil on here while pursuing my dreams :3 (And also with the fact that I can't really do much on here in terms of money-)

Some art I did on here I will take to my other blog, and the name of the other blog will relatively be similar to this one and will be down below if you wanna follow it ♥️✨️ (I actually forgot the name of it but I'll put it here after I come back and edit 🫡) And support would be appreciated! :D

https://www.tumblr.com/avaitosstuff?source=share

(That took way longer to set up and get..)

But with that being said thanks again!

today has been a really tough day for me. I cut ties with somebody who has been a “best friend” to me for the past four years. She knew everything about me. knew all of my secrets. knew all the ins and outs of every single thing I did. everything, from the nicknames I have for my cousins, to how I tie my shoelaces every morning. what she did not know is that I’m steadfast in my beliefs and I am a good person. A “good person” can be defined by many characteristics: kind, selfless, funny, intuitive, empathetic, caring, and so many more. but in my opinion, the most important value somebody can display is humility. Being humble, being gracious, and considering others’ opinions, are all examples of traits I truly cherish in a friend.

I thought my best friend embodied those. what I didn’t know is that she had been lying to me for years, using the secrets I had entrusted her with and holding them against me, slowly getting everything she could out of me before I finally began to realize. last night, i learned that she did not value my opinion in anything that she did and insisted on ruining four years of something that we built just for an “exciting”, “gratifying”, one night stand (her words, not mine).

It’s so easy to get mad at yourself about something like this, in fact all day today I was spiraling about how I shouldn’t have been so naïve and how I should’ve seen this coming. People are manipulative. that’s the cold hard truth. and I beg each and everyone of you to please look out for people like that.

I know this is not what I usually post and I know it’s weird for me to get sentimental, but I feel like this is something that a lot of people need to hear. It’s never fair to have somebody hold you back or tarnish your reputation. It’s never fair for somebody to make you think you have to conform to their standards of life or their morals in order to be their friend. It’s never fair for somebody to use you. And finally, it’s never fair for someone to use a title as valuable and as sincere as the word “friend” when your opinions and beliefs mean nothing to them.

No matter what the specifics of my situation were, I realized last night that I didn’t want to have my life fucked up through association. I didn’t want the reputation that this “friend” built for herself to define me. I was nothing but honest with her, and as somebody who genuinely cared about her, my advice was coming from a place of true care and friendship. Instead of listening, she told me that my “opinions and beliefs do not matter” to her, and that I wasn’t worth her time. she went as low as two insult me for things like my sexuality, saying that, during the year that I was unsure about where i fell on the gay spectrum, i was a burden to her, and she hated having to deal with my interest in women and men. it really fucking hurt. to have my BEST FRIEND, somebody who i thought i could trust forever, tell me that an unchangeable part of me was like a “burden” to her, absolutely ruined me. after hours of tears and conversations, I finally began to gain more traction in my situation and see the light at the end of the tunnel.

What I learned is what I will share with you now. First and most importantly, it’s SO important to know your worth. people will try to discredit your accomplishments, discredit your morals, put beliefs in your head that are truly unjust, and use you to fill the void of a person they wish they had. The truth is you owe nothing to anyone. And there’s people for you everywhere. 5 miles away or 500 miles away, you will find people who value YOU. So, if you feel like you’re being weighed down by somebody, or if you feel as though a reputation you’ve built for yourself is being ruined due to your association to them, cut them off. You are beautiful. You are important. You are VALUABLE. You are unique. You are everything I haven't listed and so much more. Value yourself and know that you are valued by others.