#attraction discourse

Normalizing straight men and lesbians who are attracted to and date trans women. Normalizing straight women and gay men who are attracted to and date trans men. 

Normalizing straight men and lesbians who aren’t attracted to and don’t want to date trans women, and are respectful about it. Normalizing straight women and gay men who aren’t attracted to and don’t want to date trans men, and are respectful about it.

Making it safe for trans people to communicate that they are trans. Normalizing communication of “I’m cis” or “I’m trans” before dating or doing sexual acts together. Normalizing communicating gender, so lesbians won’t end up dating or doing sexual acts with trans men without knowing, gay men won’t end up dating or doing sexual acts with trans women without knowing, etc. In general, normalizing communication between all parties.

Unhelpful:

Nobody is born a sexual predator.

Saying some people happen to be born sexual predators is fucking sick and it makes me so angry I want to switch in French to insult people.

Putain de merde de ta mère la pute. :)

I've only known one person who openly supports the P to be added. His name is James Cantor an he is an expert on paraphilias and hypersexuality. So he works on them, and he's a gay man. He's a very thoughtful and compassionate man from what I've seen.

I’m just tired. 

We don’t know anything about that girl, she’s apparently a pedophile and so deserves to be dragged into the mud by common people despite not knowing if she ever did something that hurt people or not.

Friendly reminder that nobody chooses their attraction, even if you think it’s really gross and bad. It’s not choosen. The person who’s horny because they smell shit, or the person who’s horny to the idea of murdering someone, or the person who’s horny about feet, or the person who’s horny about males, or the person who’s horny about kids. All have something in common. They didn’t choose that. It’s part of them, and will never change. There’s nothing to do about it but manage their mental health so it doesn’t drag them down and lead them to stop caring and abuse people.

Yeah people should be allowed and encouraged to have a therapist to be sure they don’t hurt anyone, and that’s not specific to pedophiles, mind you. The main problem with that is that there’s such a stigma around pedophilia, that the ones who do get help loose everything (job, house, family, etc). That doesn’t encourage anyone to seek help, and so, it doesn’t help having less victims of abuse. This is a huge problem, we won’t be decreasing CSA if we don’t actually help pedophiles to seek help before they act.

Guilty until proven innocent isn’t a viable justice system, especially runned by random youtubers that gets off of the feeling they did a good job for society. Encouraged by their fans, making money out of it. We litteraly decided she was guilty from a couple of text post on tumblr and twitter.