#atricksterproblem

I'm happy for you! You are both awesome and I wish you joy.

Beautiful!

I would give you hugs if I were there. And also not all germy.

Pre-dating Ask Meme

Thank you, @atricksterproblem! I’ll talk about Bumblebee.

2. How long did it take for you and your f/o to gain feelings for each other? Was it fast or did the feelings grow slowly? Who was the first to get romantic feelings? 

Not that long! I’ve noticed a trend for slow-burn romances in a lot of my ships, but for Bumblebee that just isn’t possible. The ‘bot is easier to read than any picture book, so the minute he caught feelings I started noticing something was different. So it was only a few months before we both realized we wanted more out of our friendship.

I think he was the first to get full romantic feelings, but it was still roughly around the same time.

6. How did you react once you realized you had feelings for them? Were you calm, stressed, in denial, etc.? Vice versa?   

In denial, my friend. I mean, sitting yourself down and trying to figure out the logistics of dating a 15 foot tall robot when you’re... not? Yeah that’s a lot to process. But I couldn’t ignore it for long, due to how often we hung out and how his behavior began to change and get sweeter.

Bumblebee was a bit in denial at first (he joked about hooking me up with one of his friends, in fact) but he owned up to it pretty quickly.

7. You’ve just come to realize you have a crush on your f/o. How was it like when you encountered them again after that? Were you able to keep your cool around them, or was it awkward? How about vice versa?   

It was a wee bit awkward. He’d already started acting a bit hesitant and shy- VERY unlike him- so when I realized I had a crush on him, I ended up being shy right back. No wonder Bulkhead and Prowl would leave the room as quickly as they could, they likely didn’t want to deal with the dumb stuff ‘Bee and I were potentially going to say or do.

Thank you so much for the Ask! 💖

send me a ship with a heart and i'll tell you...

🖤: who is more affectionate in public? in private?

It’s half-n-half I think. Aaravos isn’t shy by any means, but he is still cautious. The most PDA between us is in how we talk to each other, holding hands sometimes, and occasionally a kiss of some kind (cheek, forehead, even back of the hand...and rarely lips.) A little more of that on dates. lol

At home is another story. He can be very cuddly, and affectionate...and his lap is my favorite seat. XD

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