Hot take but I donât think when a system is asked to take accountability itâs always the systems fault. First of alters are always there for a reason they form from when we are in a stressful situation or need care/protect/gatekeep etc etc. a lot of the times Iâve been called out for my system âacting outâ was whenever my âinteract with cautionâ alter would be fronting or the ones that youâre not allowed to talk to at all. But despite this boundary people would still provoke or try to talk to that specific alter despite us as a system recommending not to do that for that exact reason. Now I donât say what my alter did www right (insulted my friends threatened and harassed people) but if our boundaries couldâve just been respected and you wouldnât of have provoked such an aggressive alter this whole thing couldâve been avoided. See,now I donât say itâs an excuse but itâs rare that alters act out for no reason. Most of the time itâs because they feel threatened or scared so they behave strangely or act out. For me personally our alters like that can be normal as long as you treat them normally or are very cautious with them. Whenever people tell me âx alter did â-â my first question is on what happened. I doubt my avenger alter wouldâve harassed someone for fun! I mean their whole role is being an avenger. Besides they are normal to people outside the system if they donât feel scared so whenever I get reports like that I honestly canât feel like I am in the wrong for it. You provoked, talked, scared and aggressive/sensitive alter and they responded badly. What did you expect honestly?
No matter what if my system caused serious damage for no reason (which has never happened there was always a reason as to why my alters did âbad stuffâ) I will take accountability and even if they did bad stuff for good reasons I will take accountability but I wonât ever feel sympathy for you if you know alters like that act out and still enable them.then get mad that they react like they do. Thatâs your fault. Fuck around find out
