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what causes anxiousness/nervousness in synastry and composite

i'm going to work off of what i already have posted (no asteroids discussed after this post will be included or added after the fact). finally, i would like to state that NO TWO CHARTS ARE THE SAME. what i am about to list out does not mean you will for sure need these exact things (or all of these things) to be shy, nervous, and/or anxious around one another. if you don't understand my thought process, feel free to comment with questions!

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your mercury or saturn in their 12h or 12h ruler negatively aspecting mercury or saturn

i find that having these planets in another persons 12h tends to make mercury/saturn people feel like they freeze up or have nothing to say to the 12h person. often i find that mercury/saturn feel anxious and they nervously talk to the 12h person, sometimes oversharing what they think/feel. 12 house person might also feel like mercury person doesn't like them which makes them even more anxious when they are around them.

mercury negatively aspecting saturn

mercury person could say something that offends the saturn person without having thought that it would - simply because they didn't remember a reason not to say it... then there is significant tension between the two... mercury person might not to able to able to pick up on saturn person's feelings/thoughts and instead feels as though they must "walk on eggshells" around the saturn person. mercury person can become clumsy around saturn person - they might trip or even drop things around saturn person.

your mercury in their 3h, 3h mercury in composite, and/or gemini mercury in composite

all of these manifest like social anxiety, nervous chatter, and/or in ability to say what you mean to one another.

mercury negatively aspecting saturn, mercury negatively aspecting uranus, and/or saturn negatively aspecting uranus

this is general nervousness around one another - mercury and uranus are ramblers/fidgeters while saturn is shy and tends to freeze up.

12h mercury, saturn, and/or neptune

often these people get too in their heads and overthink what was said or done around them. the planet person tends to do the overthinking about the house person.

echo (asteroid 60) - mercury, echo (asteroid 60) - narcissus (asteroid 37117), and/or your echo in their 3h

echo person might find themselves mute around mercury, narcissus, and/or 3h person.

mnemosyne (asteroid 57) negatively aspecting mercury and/or saturn

mnemosyne person is likely to lose their train of thought and/or feel ill equipped to talk with mercury/saturn person.

pan (asteroid 4450) - mercury and/or your pan (asteroid 4450) in their 3h

often the pan person with panic when talking with mercury/3h person.

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Pan was the son of Hermes and one of Hermes’s dalliances at the time (that part is kind of vague whether it was a nymph, dryad, etc.). Pan was what many described as a satyr - bipedal with horns and a goat's legs. Very often then not, Pan was depicted as a very gregarious character, who chased nymphs through the forest. When Pan was ever upset, he would release a blood curdling shout that those in the area would hear then become too anxious or terrified to enter the woods where he could often be found (said to be the origin of "panic"). When he was not doing that, he was typically napping or playing music. In fact, Pan invented the panpipes or, as he called them, the “syrinx.” Pan thought himself to be the best musician in the world so he challenged Apollo and ultimately lost (perhaps he was the best panpipes player at the time lol). The panpipes, or "syrinx," is thought to be named after the nymph, Syrinx, who was a follower of Artemis - he lusted after Syrinx. Syrinx ran as far as she could until a river was in her way there she begged the river nymphs to help her. And indeed they did; they turned her into reeds - to keep her with him always, he cut the reeds only to discover they made a noise when moved. When he found they were hollow and made noise when blown into, he commenced building the panpipe. Midas was the only one who thought Pan was better than Apollo. In response to that, Midas was given a pair of donkey's ears by Apollo. IN MY OPINION Pan in a chart represents a) where you could afford to practice restraint, b) where or by who you may not be seen as attractive, c) where you have a lot of anxiety, d) where you need plenty of breaks, e) where you can makes lemons into lemonade, f) your musical abilities, and/or g) where you may be a bit egotistical.

i encourage you to look into the aspects of pan along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of pan AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede pan!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: hermes (69230), syrinx (3360), nymphe (875), apollo (1862), artemis (105), and midas (1981)!

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midas, the king with the golden touch (asteroid 1981)

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Midas was thought to be the son, or adopted son, of Cybele and Gordias. Midas was also the king of Phrygia. Being the ruler of the realm, he wished for dignity - when he heard that many peasants were getting drunk near his gardens, he sent guards to capture them. One of these violators was the satyr Silenus who was a rather close and respected friend of Dionysus. Immediately, Midas released Silenus from any punishments/capture and instead invited the satyr to stay with him in his castle. Midas had the upmost respect for Dionysus so for ten nights, Midas did nothing but ensure that Silenus was well fed and entertained. On the eleventh night, Midas brought Silenus back to Dionysus. Dionysus was ever so grateful for the king's hospitality to his friend and thus offered Midas a wish. The king asked that everything he touch be turned to gold (prior to this, he was gold obsessed as well allegedly he'd bathed in gold pieces, adorned his outfits in gold, etc.) - Dionysus granted this wish and Midas quickly set about testing this power. This power was infinite to him so he was quite content with never running out of wealth... What he didn't realize was that, when he came home from this great day of turning things into golden, he couldn't touch anything he wanted to remain as it was. He'd lift his bread and it would turn to gold, wine would become a solid gold piece in his mouth, etc. He wept at his table hungry and unable to eat. At this point, his daughter came in to the dining area and touched him as if to see what was wrong or to comfort him when she too became gold (this part was speculated and added in by a Dark American Romantic named Nathaniel Hawthorne in the 1850s so you can either keep that piece of myth in or ignore it because it is not "ancient myth"). Miserably, he went back to Dionysus asking that the god removed this gift - Dionysus advised him to bathe in the river and indeed that did the trick (this is thought to be why we have golden sand and goldfish (not the snack)). When he came home, he found everything he had touched had turned back to normal - including his daughter. It was that day, that he left his daughter in charge of his kingdom so he could go live in the woods with Pan and company to remove himself from all these riches and temptations of royal living. As is known from past posts, Midas judged the competition between Apollo and Pan. The results of this musical battle was that Apollo was the clear winner, but Midas decides that Pan was actually quite good and said such out loud. Apollo in turn gave Midas a pair of donkey ears. This is why in many paintings he is wearing a turban to hide his ears. Of course, Midas couldn’t hide these ears from his barber. He made the man swear to tell no one - of course, the barber couldn’t contain himself and instead chose a loophole (haha hole). The barber dug a hole in the ground and whispered this gossip into the earth and then buried it. Eventually, reeds grew in this spot - every time the wind would blow they would whisper this secret. IN MY OPINION Midas in your natal chart represents a) where you may change your life to the extreme, b) where you struggle to resist temptation, c) where you may not think out your wishes and come to regret them when they come true, d) where you are hospitable, e) where you are punished for your unpopular opinions, and/or f) where your greatest shame becomes the biggest piece of gossip.

i encourage you to look into the aspects of midas along with the sign, degree, and house placement. for the more advanced astrologers, take a look at the persona chart of midas AND/OR add the other characters involved to see how they support or impede midas!

OTHER RELATED ASTEROIDS: cybele (65), dionysus (3671), pan (4450), and apollo (1862)!

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