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Hello. I understand how you are feeling. It sucks, when you are being yourself and no seems to get that, or understand you, or appreciate you. Loneliness is tough, I get that. Maybe you aren’t trying hard enough? That sounds awful I know, but maybe, you should expand your perspective. Instead of just going to school and looking for friends. Try a club? A new sport club, a poem club, youth club,volunteering,cooking lessons?  it could be anything. Maybe go out with your cousin or your sister, and meet her friends, which can lead to mutual friends. Which can lead to more friends being created.Its great that you are being yourself, and you should carry on being yourself. Don’t change yourself for others. You shouldn’t rush into friendships, which could break in months.It won’t be genuine. You need to be patient, and wait for people who are like you, understand you, appreciate you. Patience is the key, I know its tough right now. But you will make friends soon, to want friends you need to be a friend yourself. Meaning, you may think you are approachable, but maybe you aren’t. And that’s what is putting people off. How do you present yourself to new people? You may be scaring people off. Maybe you’re not showing interest in other people. You should examine your communication facts, how do you speak to people? Do you just talk about yourself? Maybe not enough about yourself? Developing a bond with someone takes time, you have to be patience, once again. It can be frustrating, but don’t give up on making friends once yet! You must enjoy casual acquaintances, before you find that right friend. Believe me, you are not alone. There are many other people who are feeling just the same way as you, you need to look harder. Go talk to that weird kid, yknow the one who smells like cheese? Or that nerdy girl, who eats with her imaginary friend? I’m sure they have stories to share. Meanwhile, just sit back and go along with the flow. Good things happen to those who wait. 

Good Luck!

Hello there.

So the cute guy you like isn’t interested in you? Let’s start off with the basics, do you even talk to him? does he even know who are you? do you even know who he is? I’m just going to put it bluntly, grow some balls. Go talk to him! It may be hard, but you want to forward this relationship right? You can talk to him about anything. Whether, it may be his favorite sport, a TV programme, a movie, a band, an actor. You may realize you have something in common. And once you’ve grasped that, you hold on to it and take advantage of that hobby, or whatever you both have common in. If it was a band, go to a concert together. If it was an actor, go watch a movie with that actor in it. Get a closer bond to him. And then a friendship will form. Don’t be to desperate, don’t believe you are in love with him. Don’t act to needy, and knowledgeable, like pretending you like football when you really don’t.  you’re just infatuated with his appearance? I gotta say, most people only take genuine interest in people who are physically attractive, and thats ok. All humans are pretty superficial, but you should follow the steps I told you, and take the time to know him as a person. And if he actually sucks, then you need to get out xD You need to be friends with him first,as you’re learning his interests, become his buddy. Act relaxed around him.Yet, don’t slip into that ‘’oh shes cool, just a friend. I could never go out with her! ewwww!’’ When you act like a bro, and he thinks of you as a guy friend who’s actually a female. You need to show a slight feminine side too (however, if this is not you, don’t go for him, you need to still be you as a person, who you are. don’t pretend to be someone you’re not) Don’t be overly flirtatious, and scare him away all of a sudden. Give him time, maybe he needs to sort out his feelings. Leave him alone for a bit and wait for him to talk to you.Lastly, if he still doesn’t like you. you might as well accept it. If you are dwelling over the same guy for more then a couple of months, give it up. He doesn’t like you, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough. It just means he’s not good enough for you. Don’t spend your time chasing a guy who isn’t interested in you. You will just be wasting time, when you could be meeting other people, people who are genuinely interested in you. Open your eyes, and see there will be many guys available for you. Some things are not meant to be.

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