From what I've seen, people who get mad at Ace Jumin HCs are usually people who thirst over him constantly; so they just can't accept the idea that someone they want to have sex with so badly could potentially not want that. It ruins their sexual fantasies. Which is exactly what aces have to deal with in real life: people feeling entitled to sex and not accepting someone might not want it. To me it's clearly selfish/acephobic. Anyway, you're great, keep headcanoning your things, ace Jumin rocks.
I really don’t like the fact that people think that they have an ownership over somebody else’s body, and it really rubs me the wrong way when somebody acts like being Asexual or on the ace spectrum is a wrong or bad thing. There is more to loving somebody then having intercourse with them. I struggle to understand sometimes why people feel as if that’s the defining factor to if someone loves you. Do they not know the depth of simply cuddling with somebody or holding hands?
I identify as Pansexual, but so many of the people I love dearly and that are close to me are on the ace spectrum. My best friend is Aroace, and my partner is very much Demi. So when I start to receive ignorant comments or blatant acephobia, it makes me very sick to my stomach.Â
I understood right off the bat when I started to get hate messages not long after that, that it was people who were so thirsty for him and immediately took it as an insult to themselves and their fantasy. I was just trying to share an opinion of mine and at no point did I ever tell anyone that they couldn’t think otherwise, and it’s a reminder when people post on things that aren’t even meant for them in the first place, their sense of entitlement is so vast and acephobia still exists today because of that and other distorted thoughts.Â
It’s a damn shame that Aces have to deal with this. If any of my followers are Ace, Aromantic, etc, please know that I’m here if you need somebody to talk to at any time. This blog is a loving and caring place. I will not stand for bigotry, and I will defend anyone and care for anyone who needs it. Acephobes, Terfs, all the other bigots, they aren’t allowed here and should show themselves to the door right the hell now if they’re reading this. I’m not going to stop HCing Jumin as Asexual, and I will continue to stand by that point no matter what.Â
I’d be glad to write and share more on the topic if that’s what somebody wants to request.
