Jul 2
today I learned that you get showered in cinnamon by your friends when you’re unmarried at the age of 25 in Denmark — a country regarded as one of the most progressive ones regarding queer rights
OH THE APHOBIA
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today I learned that you get showered in cinnamon by your friends when you’re unmarried at the age of 25 in Denmark — a country regarded as one of the most progressive ones regarding queer rights
OH THE APHOBIA
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as suggested by a comment, the sunset ace flag now has an aromantic flag to match! just like the last one, this isn't meant to replace anything, this is just an alternative that people can use if they'd like.
Dandelion aro flag
dark teal- loveless aros; aros who experience absolutely no attraction, love, or desire for intimacy; this includes labels such as apothioromantics, romance repulsed aros, etc
green- loveful aros & the aromantic spectrum; aros who are somewhere on the spectrum between aromanticism and alloromanticism; aros who experience love and/or desire intimacy in any form to any degree. includes labels like demiromantics, greyromantics, cupioromantics, etc
yellow- unity and understanding within the aromantic community, acceptance of aromanticism as a spectrum; acknowledgement that being loveless is just as valid as being loveful, and that one's capacity for love and attraction doesn't affect their ability to be a complete and fulfilled person
pale yellow- joy, acceptance and celebration of aromanticism from all cultural backgrounds, inclusion of all aromantics; rejection of the "thin, white, emotionless aro" stereotype being seen as the default
unless it’s somebody i know i can trust, i tend to lie about being aroallo. i tell people i’m also ace because i don’t want them treating me like i’m a horrible person or gross. i feel bad about lying about being something im not but it makes me feel safer in some way
anon I hope one day you don't have to ever lie to people about being aroallo. You aren't a horrible person for not wanting to be harassed for your identity.
I've been wondering recently if I could be aromantic for a while now but it isn't really easy to tell when what I'm feeling is romantic (i do know that there is already a label for that and I'd say it does fit nicely)
I guess it never occurred to me that I could be because I've never been repulsed at the thought of romance. I enjoy content containing it and may consider trying it out in the future myself. But now that I think about it, I don't care much for it in regards to myself. It doesn't appeal to me outside of the interest in knowing what it must be like or whether it really is like how people describe it. (Thought I was bi or pan because I didn't care much for gender either uhh)
On top of that the feeling I used to think could be romantic attraction is kinda what I feel for most of my close friends. I do feel a bit doubtful about using the label though. Since I am just never able to tell exactly what I'm feeling, I feel like I can never be sure, no matter how much it fits my experience.
But anyways besides that, it also annoys me how romance centric people usually are. I can't be seen with a friend of the opposite gender without being asked if we're dating, and some of my friends who already know the nature of our relationship act like romance is the obvious end goal. "Yeah, you two are not together... yet"
I don't mind much since it's bound to happen but they are so persistent with it. I don't want that to somehow come between our friendship. Hope it isn't wrong to be affectionate with any of my friends platonically geez man...
All in all (what is this? an essay?), I've had my fun with self discovery ngl. Still very confusing I have to admit but we'll see.
god same anon, when we were younger we would read a lot of self insert fanfiction and were fine with that being romantic (we know now that it was fine because of the degree of separation with ourselves and fiction) but I can't imagine how annoying it would be to deal with "you aren't together yet", why people can't listen to "hey, this isn't the type of relationship this is and it will never be that."
I'm not broken in the sense of, a mistake happened and I was dropped or let go and the impact of my fall made me like this. More like
When they made me
They forgot to give me a little screw, and
My machine insides have been
Falling out of function
For years, eventually spinning out
Over themselves and tangling
Metal with metal and
Soldering to each other with heat and
Becoming one with one another,
Leaving me
Unusable.
you weren't made wrong, you were made perfect but left in a world that wasn't willing to adapt to a change from the status quo
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My perfect relationship(s) would be to have a queer platonic life mate (gender wouldn't matter) who's aroace, and one or more sexual partners. My aroace partner also may have their own other relationships like if they have some kink or something.
At the end of the day we'd come back to our house where each one has their own room. We'd be married for legal reasons and tax benefits. Absolutely no children, plenty of cats.
I don’t understand where people get the misconception that being ace means you don’t want a relationship. Or being ace means you can’t be any other sexual orientation. I remember it used to piss me off SO bad seeing comments and videos or art where there was an ace person, and people were saying it meant they didn’t want a relationship. While two things can be true at once, IT DOESNT GO FOR EVERYONE??? 😭 ITS NOT THE MEANING OR DEFINITION ?? this also goes for aro and aroace people😭
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