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I’ve learned that Sisters Signs are naturally attracted to one another. It’s like meeting your polar opposite with insane similarities .

Some say that sister signs can help people understand qualities they might be lacking and learn from people who possess them. They can also teach people how to get along with others and make life better.

Have you experienced relationships with your opposite sign? Let me know about it.

Aries -Libra

Gemini - Sagittarius

Scorpio - Taurus

Virgo - Pisces

Leo - Aquarius

Cancer - Capricorn

(check sun, rising and mars to see if you relate to the sign)

A SISTER SIGN STORY

So my sister and I came up with this theory that throughout the sister/opposite signs there’s a story to be told. (coincidentally our sun signs are also sister signs)

It’s more or less how you’d describe life or drastic events happening in life (which in this case, I’ll refer to as a war).

ARIES & LIBRA

They are the beginning phase of it all. The war that is about to commence. The main focus is on SELF first.

Aries is concerned with what can be done to defend oneself by thinking of oneself. The natural confidence and perhaps fearlessness is what allows for oneself to be ready for anything that is to come. Libra is concerned with what can be done to defend oneself and others. It’s like the little discussion you have with yourself before doing something. They are as much ready for the war as Aries, but they make sure everyone else is ready too.

Ultimately, they are the defenders.

TAURUS & SCORPIO

They are the second phase when you ask yourself what you have going forth in this war: The visible and invisible possessions you hold to protect yourself and have as an advantage for the war, and just generally for satisfaction.

Taurus is concerned with what visible possessions one holds, including material things, skills and talents, and anything that activates the five senses (touch, smell, sight, taste, hearing). Scorpio is concerned with the invisible possessions one holds, including thoughts, (that’s why you’ll find that most Scorpios are interested in depth, especially mental depth) intense and profound feelings, subliminal messages, and even sexual desires.

Ultimately, they are the possessors.

GEMINI & SAGITTARIUS

They are the third phase when you are now in, and have settled in this war. What tricks and games you can play to go about this. They deal with the mind and living through acting upon their thoughts (which is why you’ll find that they are quite playful). Also because that’s how you do basically anything on earth, you have to think and do.

Gemini is concerned with quick-thinking, the sharp mental thoughts one has and small activities to keep this war going while winning. They also are able to put themselves in any situation and get along with anyone because the war can require working together to win (which may also be why they’re known as the twins). Sagittarius is concerned with wider thinking, higher learning and wisdom from experience. They’re there experiencing the war and putting action in (fire sign) while hoping for the best (being ruled by Jupiter).

Ultimately, they are the intellectuals.

Side note: with both Gemini and Sagittarius, they are in the middle stage of all of this, which is why they don’t dwell into things for long, they are the two signs known for moving about life quickly and just having fun along the way.

CANCER & CAPRICORN

They are the fourth phase when you are done or in the near end of the war and you feel like giving up because of the bruises, the losses, the drained feelings. They are there to care for these things. (Also why they’re known as the mom and dad of the zodiac)

Cancer is concerned with caring for the bruises and drained feelings one has by listening with the heart and physically and emotionally taking care of one – as long as you’re feeling good, you good. Capricorn is concerned with physically taking care of one while being encouraging and supportive of the things one does or has done and gained, also being proud of the dedication and commitment one has put in – as long as you have fought good, you good.

Ultimately, they are the carers.

LEO & AQUARIUS

They are the fifth phase after the end of the war; when you start to look at yourself and those around you, becoming conscious of what this war has done – self-consciousness and consciousness of the masses.

Leo is concerned with the self, the true gains and achievements from this war and trying to make sense of how the war has shaped the self; being proud and happy with oneself after seeing the good in all of this (Leos are generally really optimistic). Aquarius is concerned with the people, being proud and happy with what the people have done (why Aquariuses are quite generous); trying to make sense of how the war has shaped everyone and everything (why they love change/difference/eccentricity).

Ultimately, they are the awakeners.

VIRGO & PISCES

They are the final phase after everything has happened, from gaining strength for the war, to what possession one has for the war, to engaging in the war, to taking care of the self after the war, to then reflecting the self and people after the war. Now it is about mending and curing everything for the end and beginning of something new.

Virgo is concerned with curing the people and visible environment, cleaning, organizing, and taking care of physical health. That’s why most (developed) Virgos have the urge sometimes to ask what’s wrong and have the ability do and say what’s right to help out. Pisces is concerned with curing the people internally and the invisible environment, sensing and being intuitive of their emotions, thoughts, and feelings. That’s why most Pisceans are deeply understanding and shy/relaxed to allow you to open up.

I'm working on a thing about October but wanted to give a separate heads up for this weekend - today Mars in Libra opposes our Wounded Healer Chiron in Aries and on Sunday our Sun in Libra also opposes Chiron. This highlights the stressors between the cardinal planets (Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn) that we've been feeling since the beginning of 2020.

The opposition between Aries and Libra highlights the imbalance between extreme independence and co-dependency. We all fall somewhere on this axis and when we are unaware of these tendencies, we will often choose Others who fall on the other end of the spectrum as a means of over-compensation. This can create problems down the road as one person in the relationship's base needs can come into conflict with the other.

I want to reiterate that it's okay to have healthy conflicts with our Others specifically because it may really not feel this way this weekend. Until you have done a lot of self-work (and sometimes even then) Chiron can trigger a main pain point in your life - Chiron can be seen as the crack in the cosmic egg that lets the light in. But if you're just noticing the cracks on the walls for the first time, or you are really afraid of change, or highly resistant to letting go of something, Chiron can just plain hurt.

For many, Chiron in Aries has been manifesting as a dark night of the ego. It's okay - we all have Aries somewhere in our charts and that is (one of) the places where our ego lies. We all have one. On the other hand, Mars in Libra has problems with indecision because no matter how he tries, Mars in Libra cannot please everyone. There is no perfection to be found here, no easy answers. The very person who once offered us solace because they were so different from us now grates on us for being so different from us.

If this is a part of your experience this weekend, know that you are right on time. Oppositions are most often experienced in our closest relationships because that is where we learn to differentiate between ourselves and our Others. This is the natural domain of Aries (ruler of the first house of self) and Libra (ruler of the 7th house of relationships). This will play out differently for each of us depending on our birth chart and past traumas.

The Sun, Mars, and Chiron play starring roles in October all month long. Pay attention to what is coming up now, notice it, name it, and then give it some space. We have Mercury + our transpersonal and outer planets all in retrograde, there are no quick and easy answers to be found right now. I think that this is a good thing - we need bigger and more lasting solutions than the nearest quick fix.

Even if it seems like relationship debris, try to keep in mind that what is coming up for you right now - even if it is being in reflected your Others - has to do with something much deeper than your relationships. Try to remember that you are more than the sum of your relationships. There may be a pain point of loneliness - an echo especially of times in your life where you have felt very lonely but weren't even truly alone. Or pain points around extreme co-dependency and insular family units - where anybody not inside the family unit is untrustworthy or bad - may also come up.

Chiron retrograde strongly supports shadow work - a way to do it from an astrological perspective would be to look at the signs (Sun, Moon, and Ascendant if you can get the information) of the people that you grew up in a house with. Using synastry (astrological compatibility) - were these people in elemental alignment with you or were there really big energetic conflicts? Some sign's energy naturally combines together more easily than others - you will find that you might replicate this alignment or malalignment in your housemate/partner choices in your life now. What does this tell you about yourself?

This is a long-winded way of saying that when the pain comes up this weekend, go deep with it rather than deep into a fight with that person whom you probably love who inadvertently stepped on the one swollen toe that you may not have even remembered you had.

These signs are pretty strong. They are pretty different, so they’ll have to make adjustments to enjoy the relationship. It is very hard to separate them, even with the differences (once they get attached to one another emotionally).

It is okay if you disagree with me because a lot of the time, relationships aren’t because of astrology.

I’ve been seeing a lot of people pairing sister sign and saying they are the most compatible opposites....... I don’t see how that’s possible and here’s why.

Every opposition have some common ground something they agree on or a focual energy placed in the same area in life. They also have the attributes the other is missing. You can either be completely enamored with your opposite or completely disgusted. In my experience platonic or romancially this has been true.

As a Virgo the first relationship that impacted me the most was with a Pisces.

I’m friends with this younger kid (he’s like my lil bb brother) and he’s a Pisces. He teaches me a lot even tho he doesn’t realize it, and thinks it’s actually me teaching him.

The one that got away and broke my heart is a Pisces. I still can’t get over him omfg ugh.

Aries and libra=Both fun loving and social. Aries love a challenge while libra will give them attention libra apperciates beauty......in everyone. So flirty libra even tho it’s probably inncocent will provide Aries with the competition it greatly needs. I’ve really never met an Aries that was REALLY violent which would not fly with libra. I’m sure there out there tho. This relationship could turn out like King Kong and a damsel in distress easily lol.

Taurus and Scorpio= both love security and stability (well in different ways). Scorpio wants to know everything that no one knows about you, they want a hidden bond no one else could see. Taurus wants a never changing bond with someone which Scorpio will provide if givin a key to the unrelieved. Taurus are the most sensual of the signs and Scorpio is literally the groin of the zodiac so there you go.

This is the sex tape that’s gotta be leaked......

Gemini and Sagittarius= Gemini wants all the knowledge and sag will help discover it,The teacher and the student relationship.... it works however gemini doesn’t want to be taught things obviously they kinda have to solve it on there own. Sag doesn’t want to teach either tho they are philosophical. They will learn from eachother from organic conversations.

Cancer and Capricorn= this one I’ve never heard of being “the most compatible of the opposites” which I’m actually shocked about. Cancer loves to make a home and feel motherly by taking care of their loved ones. Capricorn will appreciate this because they want to build a life with someone. While people think Capricorns are cold they actually just don’t want to have there affections rebuffed which cancer wouldn’t do to them.

Leo and Aquarius= leo want to be treated like royalty while Aquarius likes a healthy distance from people. Aquarius will be showy enough for Leo to make an enterance with. Leo will be adored by Aquarius because of the creativity they both share(Leo’s tend to hide there abilities-and I ain’t sure why). This couple will have the best celebration and you probably won’t even know what your partying for.

Aries and Libra is also a super cool match, but I honestly can’t say they’re the best, mainly because they can both be quite stubborn, and basically stand firm on their beliefs. On one hand you have Aries who truly belief in the sense of “self” one way on another; no matter what the rising or moon sign is, an Aries person will forever deeply believe in putting themselves first; or even in the way they do things. On the other hand Libra is the complete opposite, believing firmly (and even subconsciously) that people or “each other” matter. Together, they then butt heads cause Libra can wonder ‘‘why don’t you care about anyone but yourself or the things you love?” while Aries is like “why should I even care about anyone else? why do you never put yourself first?” And so they have these ways of living that may not see eye to eye... BUT at the same time, they can be this “power couple”, because then they teach other about how to love. Aries can teach (or subconsciously influence) the importance of having confidence in yourself while Libra influences Aries to love people more, give and share, be generous, even with feelings, and so ultimately, they’re able to be comfortable with each other. And nothing is more sweet and like ‘perfect’ than Aries & Libra when they’re comfortable with each other. They’re so chilled and funny and just a really cool duo.

These signs are pretty strong. They are pretty different, so they’ll have to make adjustments to enjoy the relationship. It is very hard to separate them, even with the differences (once they get attached to one another emotionally).