#ancestral patterns

The dynamic between the empath and the narcissist is not random it is a meeting of wounds.

The empath, shaped in childhood to tune in to everyone else’s emotions in order to feel safe, learns to abandon themselves early on. The narcissist, often shaped by parents who neglected them, grows into survival through control, denial, and manipulation. When these two meet, it feels magnetic. The empath mistakes sacrifice for love, the narcissist mistakes possession for connection. It’s a cycle replaying the unfinished stories of their parents. Spiritually, it is a karmic loop. Now here’s the truth, it’s not destiny, it’s pattern and patterns can be broken. The moment the empath realizes their compassion is being weaponized, and the narcissist is seen for their refusal to change, the spell begins to crack. Childhood may have written the first draft of who we became, but it doesn’t get to decide the ending. Breaking the cycle is not only psychological it’s spiritual. It’s soul work.

The grandmother began it, as grandmothers often do, without warning and without apology. She leaned out of memory one afternoon and said, “You still don’t know how to look at a goddess.”Then she vanished, leaving Akshara standing with a half-formed thought and the stale smell of incense that never quite burned properly. He realised she was right. Saraswati, Sharada—he could not see them beyond…

Hello, Beautiful Souls. Have you ever felt like something invisible keeps pulling you off course? Like you’re doing all the right things—the meditations, the affirmations, the healing work—yet still find yourself looping back into old habits, old pain, or old scarcity? Let me offer you a new tool that might surprise you: ChatGPT. Yes, the AI you’ve probably seen writing emails or recipes… can…

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You want her to just be her, to feel safe, to be herself. To feel LOVED enough to express herself freely.

You want her to take on life with both hands and BELIEVE in herself and create and connect and to know that if she come from her heart she can NEVER get it wrong.

You want her to know that she can do whatever she chooses and there is NOTHING that can stop her.

But what about the baggage that sits within her DNA?

How can she be completely free to be herself when ancient family ancestral patterns and negative beliefs are being held within the very core of her?

She doesn't need her great ,great, great grandmother's belief that women can't manage money.

She doesn't need her great, great grandmother's belief that girls should be submissive to men.

She doesn't need her great grandmother's belief that loving her body is a sin.

She doesn't need her grandmother's belief that 'showing off' is self-indulgent.

She comes into this world already awakened and ready to do work. Deep sacred work.

She's here to heal the planet.

Not just a name…..Part 1

In the search for her Nana’s siblings, Ancestor Detective uncovers the importance of understanding the naming patterns for daughters born in Scotland as well as the use of pet names to add to any genealogists confusion to find their ancestors

I was at the start of my genealogy journey when I soon found out that naming a child was a whole story of its own.  Who would have thought given names could…