Might you have any advice on how a recovering persecutor might find ways to be helpful to others in their system? I find it hard to understand what to do to help, even if I'm wanting to I can't seem to find ways to fully relate to the concept or execution of it/I'm not sure how to convert the wanting to help in to an actually helpful action. My first time sending an ask here myself so apologies if it's a bit rigidly said. Thank you.
Thanks for the ask. You did great.
Working towards stepping into a new role can be uncomfortable and difficult. Navigating things can be confusing and being helpful can sometimes feel like one is fumbling along.
Keep doing your best, while the results may not be what you want, doing your best is always appreciated.
Ask others what they need help with, "How can I help?" "Can you tell me how I can help?" "What needs to be done and can you give me directions on how to do it? I'm learning."
Part of learning is making mistakes. It's alright to make mistakes, we all make them, they are apart of growth. Those around you who see your effort and understand you are doing our best will support you.
Oz
