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-Adelaide

I think the best compliment isn’t the ones where you say "your eyes are beautiful""to me you’re perfect"or"I love the way you smile."But, the best ones are the ones where you appreciate every little thing she got, those ones which people hardly notice but you do, and you appreciate it about her. Those things like, "I love how your eyes curve when you smile""I love that little hiccup you do when you laugh""I love how you blush when you’re shy" "I like the way your eye twitches a bit when you’re angry"Those compliments which makes her know that you’re really appreciating her and every little detail she has, even her flaws. All her imperfections that makes her seem so perfect to you.(i honestly have this habit of rubbing the nails of my thumb against each other whenever I’m sad, and if a guy ever notices that I’ll be like gaaaaaah omg lol)

Xx Lu

Also visit my blog if you guys ever need someone to rant to or talk about a certain problem you need help in, I won't judge :) Helping is my drug. 

You don't need to say this, just tell me your problem right away. You sound so troubled. Hey, smile a bit? When life gives you a thousand reasons to frown, give it a million reasons to smile. It's alright, I'm not bothered at all~

Why would you let them bully you in the first place. You're a flower, don't let them trample you, you may not bloom yet but you will have your moment, and you're just letting them trample you like that, your beauty, never let anyone tell you you're ugly because you were born in a way god wanted you to be, and do not show them that you're losing to them. If you're easily giving in and giving up to what they want you to do, it's like you're letting them win. And never, let them win. You should find your happiness and your confidence, because your happiness, is what they're taking from you. You shouldn't follow others just to fit in. You shouldn't fit in at all. You are different. Dare to be that way. Don't let yourself fit in the crowd or become just like the others, be who you are and stand out for being you. Yeah, people would say negative stuff about you, how you look, and they will most probably say something once they realize you're actually fighting against them. But who cares? Do you really care what they think of you? Do you really care if someone doesn't find you beautiful? Do not let someone change you or do not change your self the way people want you to be. You may fit in, but is that still your happiness? Stick with what you're happy with and smile. Surround yourself with people who'll understand. They may bully you but asking for some help won't hurt whether it be the teachers or your classmates. These "pretty" girls are always going to do their best to bring you down because they always want to  be on top. And you need to stand up for that and let them know you're not one of their followers, because it is where they gain their power and make them earn their big heads. They may have a pretty face, but darling, you own a pretty and colorful heart, and you shouldn't, let anyone erase it's colors. You will make it, trust me. It will take time but soon, you'll prove it to them. Update us soon, alright? We'd be here, supporting you. 

Before sleeping with that guy, exactly how close were you two? Guys can be vague at times. It seems as if he's guarding you with your actions. Maybe he's still not in the state of commitment. In some point, he might be guarding your actions because he'll scared you may say a word to his friends about you sleeping with him and that the whole time, he was feeling nervous, unsure of what to do or say to make everything seem natural. Though, in some point, don't get discouraged too because he may have his reasons, it may be that he's scared you'll show interest in some of his friends and you'd eventually leave him. It's hard to know unless you know what kind of guy he's like and how he treats you when you two are together. How is he, when you're together? Try to talk to him about your opinions and thoughts and see how he responds, if you're scared, you could always read through his further actions. Update us soon, okay? 

Beth xo