#actuallyagender

You can be agender and use he/him

You can be agender and be a lesbian

You can be agender and be gay

You don't have to find other pronouns and terms to use if those fit you best

Am I actually genderfluid???????????????????(and/or flux?)

I always sort of assumed all the girl parts and agender parts were kinda mixed up all into one, and that my more agender "moods" were just because of thinking more about gender some days than others

But, since I've been paying more attention, it definitely seems like when I'm getting dressed, I know what gender I am that day, and it's always vaguely nonbinary in some sense or another, but some days it feels more agressively fuck off with gender I do what I want (including explicitly masculine things) and some days is more IDGAF, and today it was definitely way more Girl than it has been over the last few days...

Huh.

So, ok.

0 months T vs (almost) 7 months T and still haven’t learned to clean my mirror

Bonus Happy Ab Salesman under the cut

I've been out as Non Binary/Agender/Demigirl for a while now.

and...I feel like nobody has really...accepted it? I feel like everyone's just waiting for me to "change my mind" and "go back to being cis" I'm sorry....but...stop waiting...it's not happening...No. I'm not in a confused period of my life. No. I'm not unsure; I've struggled with this for a really long time, alone.

I'm Not Doing This For Attention

This Has Nothing To Do With My Trauma.

I'm Not Confused, Misunderstanding Myself, Or How Ever You Try To Put It.

I'm Not Doing This To "Be Cool" or "Have More Labels"

I am Non Binary.

I Am Agender.

I'm A Demigirl.