I think writing an Affini that experiences sexual attraction to their floret goes against the point of HDG

this is not a very in depth post/rant/whatever, just saying some things i think tbh

Affini can still find their florets aesthetically attractive and pretty etc but like no, sexual attraction no, just write in a different setting

As for sex itself, like... sure, an Affini can pleasure their floret, but it should only be just another thing they can do, not held as more important to the Affini than playing a board game, and given the complex, in depth nature of sex i really think the Affini would be making absolutely sure it's something the floret would want and enjoy, and not just push it as a way to fix a problem or make their floret like them more

i've noticed HDG has gained an association on the internet as being a rape fetish setting and like, what? how has it even degraded to the point where that's a thing? of course the Affini are going to be aware of rape and the detrimental mental health effects of it, and they are going to treat it the same way they would anything else that could create trauma for a floret and be careful with it???

if your Affini character is getting pleasure out of having sex with their floret in any other way than seeing their floret enjoying themselves, the same as they would seeing their floret high on class-As or enjoying an amazing meal, i'm sorry but you're not writing an Affini

That's it petal, take a nice big inhale for me.

Oh? What am I drugging you with?

Silly pet, that's for me to know, not you.

Just close your eyes and breathe for me, nice and simple.

Inhale.. 1.. 2.. 3...

Exhale,

Good girl.

Feel the universe wash itself away.

Your nipples feel tingly? Oh don't you worry your pretty little head about it, my dear petal.

I may have added some extra class G's in the mix for you, but nothing you wouldn't want, I promise. You were just taking it so slow with your transition, and I couldn't bear seeing such a precious girl deny herself of the huge tits she deserves.

I much prefer dynamics and doing things with my hands all acekink and the like.

please, be the change you want to see in this community

our community members are all we have

it's one of the reasons i write in the setting myself

i don't like to include allosexual encounters, and a lot of the people i respect and want to associate with do not want to read about allosexual encounters

please, for your sake and the readers feeling left out, write something you love

That does not mean you shouldn't communicate with your partner.