#ace spec stuff

me: :)

a guy: *is nice to me*

also for My Personal Amusement: he will overidentify with spock!  because... because of how hard spock clings to logic when he’s Having An Emotion, obviously! lol, no surprise jon relates to that.

...and because spock is always at a remove from the camaraderie of his workplace, no matter how hard or often they invite him to be in on the joke.

...a-and because he never expresses sexual interest outside contrived genre situations...

or like this:

Over time, this has shifted, and I’d likely call myself sex neutral to sex favorable — basically sliding between the two depending on the day. I know I enjoy reading that sort of thing on fiction and like spicy art, but I still have some complex feelings about what sorts of sexual things I would consider doing with another person.

IRL, I’m functionally pretty much fully asexual because I’ve literally never felt sexual attraction to someone I know or have seen IRL. My attraction tends to be toward characters, and I’ve only felt genuine sexual attraction to an actual actor a small handful of times.

“You’re biromantic with intimacy issues!”

“What’s the difference!”