#accepting rejection

Let’s talk about something powerful that many of us shy away from: asking for what you truly want. Sounds simple, right? Yet for so many, this one act triggers deep fear, fear of rejection, of being seen, of not being worthy. But here’s the truth: asking is a sacred part of living a bold, intentional life. Whether it’s asking for support, a raise, collaboration, or love, we must train ourselves…

One of the things I find surprising about Young Royals S02 is the Wilhelm acceptance process for letting Simon go.

Usually, in a drama, the lover tries to get her sweetheart back. He wants her to give him a second chance because he truly loves her and gets her through the power of his feelings. However, with Wille, the process of trying to get Simon back just helps him realize that (1) Simon is moving on (2) maybe, he no longer love him (3) the only person who hurts Simon the most is him for his title and his family.

Contrary to Felice’s advice not to give up his feelings yet, Wille begins his painful process of acceptance, partly to repair his broken heart (he's in a lot of pain for it 😟) partly because he KNOWS he needs to respect Simon's decision on them.

So, we have this brilliant,amazing piece of art: “the makeup scene”

Wille knows his feelings for Simon are true and he will never be able to let him go (at least not for a short time) but in order not to lose Simon, in order to let him breathe at least, he gives up and numbs his heart with resignation..💔.

He succeeded in his new role as a former lover by using the best classical royal weapon to deal with Simon and his new friend in that custome party: “Courtesy”.

He is all respectful to Marcus and give his blessing to Simon and tell him he's going to move on, too. Then, he leaves...

Even though he was given some hope at the end of this difficult journey, Wille was able to recognize for his own that (1) he lost Simon when he accepted the Crown policy with respect to the infamous video,(2) he has made an enormous error and he cannot turn away from it, (3) if the person you love no longer wants to continue the relationship, you should let him/her go and accept this loss.

Wille makes the decision to release his loved one no matter how difficult, painful or even impossible it is, and this is a turning point with the other series.

Sometimes doesn't matter our best effort, it's impossible turn back the time and fix a vessel already broken. The best we can do is learn from it, and hopefully we can do better the next chance. Turn the page and to hope the best for each other.

Here is a song which pretty much sums up my ideas on the subject. (Something in spanish because Wille’s beloved is Latin American 😉)

"Hoy te vi feliz"

Wow, Talk About Flat Out Rejection!

Coming up to Mark 11:27-33, we see that they arrived again in Jerusalem, and while Jesus was walking in the temple courts, the chief priests, the teachers of the law and the elders came to him. “By what authority are you doing these things?” they asked. “And who gave you authority to do this?” Jesus replied, “I will ask you one question. Answer me, and I will tell you by what authority I am doing…

Shake the Dust Off Your Feet

Have you ever wondered about what Jesus meant and why Jesus told His disciples to shake the dust from their feet? I mean, Jesus explains that it’s to be used as a testimony against a city that rejects the Gospel that you’re trying to share, but what are we actually doing to that place when we do it? Also, where should we do it? For instance, at the entrance ramp to the highway from that city, or…

Yes, you should take no for an answer. Here's why.

It was a special day for my son. After over a year of hard work and saving, he bought his own car. It was the model he wanted with the features he needed at a reasonable price that he could afford. But one thing marred the day and could have caused the deal to fall through.

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