i mean i know the answer as to why people are like this, but somehow iām still having trouble wrapping my head around the reaction some people are having to the will smith thing.Ā
itās like the most Gross liberal reaction to the situation the way people are saying he ought to have been arrested/itās toxic masculinity/he should be barred from award shows etc. like the idea that itās worse for him to slap someone who made a joke about something his wife is self conscious about than it is to make a joke at the expense of a black womanās medical condition in front of hundreds of people in the audience, and thousands of people watching on tv, and hundreds of thousands of people who will hear about it via social media
itās so Gross and iām sure a lot of these people are all too happy to act like they support someone calling out misogynoir/ableism etc when that person is behaving in a way they think is Respectable Enough, but their world view is so simplisticĀ that they think physical violence, even defending someone else, is ~never the answer~Ā
and the way theyāre characterizing will smith as Scary and Violent is so fucking evil and unempathetic itās like do you fucking Hear yourselves? if i was at some huge event with hundreds of people in the audience who i knew and who knew me and my wife, and thousands of people watching on tv, and hundreds of thousands of people talking about it on social media, and the presenter made a joke at the expense of my wifeās well-known medical condition, i would be LividĀ
like what was he supposed to do or say in that situation? either he just sits there and lets someone say that about his wife, or what? gets on stage and delivers a ~Calm Rational and Level-Headed~ speech about misogynoir and ableism before handing the mic back to chris rock and shaking his hand while everyone cheers and says āsee? see? two people who disagree can have a Civilized Conversation about it :) it definitely doesnāt matter that one person was contributing to systemic issuesā? or,,, does he communicate that what was saidĀ wasnāt acceptable in a simple, to the point way that anyone could understand lmao
idk itās just Bothering me so much lmao, i canāt wrap my head around the absurdly disgusting reactions people are having, calling for him to be put in jail, or calling him out of control, or calling for him to beĀ ācanceledā, saying they wonāt ever watch a movie of his over this.Ā like i truly canāt wrap my head around their thought process. it would almost be comical, the level of sanctimonious, alarmist, shallow outrage people are spewing, if it werenāt so obviously bigoted respectability bullshit

















