men acknowledge your internalized misogyny challenge

men acknowledge that your disdain for onlyfans/sex work is not because you “worry for their safety” and is just a glorified extension of purity culture and lack of maturity around the idea of sex and consent

men acknowledge that the idea of protecting your sisters or friends because you “know how men think” is a reflection of you infantilizing the women in your life. the women in your life are allowed to also just want a relationship for sex. they are their own full person with wants, leave them be

men acknowledge that offering to beat up or kill a womans abuser or assaulter is not helping that woman or making them feel safe. you are taking more autonomy from that woman. most women want to avoid reporting it to the law, most women dont feel comfortable telling anyone. you are taking it upon yourself to decide how the situation ends. this woman now not only has to deal with the trauma, but now needs to worry about emotionally regulating you. you are not helping her.