Astrology Observations Part 11
🛡 Virgo and Aries placements tend to be obsessed with boundaries, especially physical ones. Virgo also carries a shielded, intimidating aura similar to Aries, partly due to Aries being in the 8th house. Because of this, they can come across as very provoking, despite how fragile or youthful they may look.
🧠 Psychological Astrology tip:
True self: 12th house (29°), 8th house (20°), 7th house/Descendant, and 4th house/IC
False self: 1st house/Ascendant, 0–1°, and 10th house/MC
This is why seeing someone who embodies your private houses can feel embarrassing or exposing, like, damn, why are you showing what I’m trying to hide?
⚰ The Five Stages of Grief explained through the sign of Scorpio:
Grief begins with Scorpio in the 1st house, where shock hits the identity and denial shows up as emotional armor and survival mode, followed by Sagittarius in the 2nd house, where denial continues through clinging to beliefs, values, or optimism to avoid feeling destabilized. Capricorn in the 3rd house expresses anger through harsh inner dialogue and mental rigidity as frustration turns inward. Grief then moves into bargaining: Aquarius in the 4th house detaches emotionally to control the pain, Pisces in the 5th house fantasizes and longs for what was, Aries in the 6th house tries to bargain through action and routine by fixing, pushing, or working harder to make the pain stop, and Taurus in the 7th house clings to people, commitments, and stability in hopes of preserving the bond. Depression follows in Gemini in the 8th house, where the mind becomes trapped in obsessive rumination about loss and irreversible change, and Cancer in the 9th house, where grief collapses meaning, faith, and emotional certainty about the future. Finally, acceptance emerges through Leo in the 10th house, where life is re-entered with dignity, Virgo in the 11th house, where grief is integrated through service and usefulness, and Libra in the 12th house, where forgiveness and surrender bring emotional balance and peace.
💝 In Venus 1st house synastry, the Venus person tends to pay a lot of attention to the 1st house person’s mannerisms because they find them endearing or even addictive. Even if the 1st house person’s mannerisms feel awkward, the Venus person usually wouldn’t mind at all.
🦀 Cancer 12th house people have trouble letting others in. They often don’t pay much attention to other people’s needs or emotions because they weren’t taught how during their upbringing. However, when they truly like or trust someone, they try their best to be emotionally attuned, even if they know it might hurt them. They can be incredible lovers or nurturers, more than any sign, once they fully trust you and move past their vulnerability or past issues.
📃 Virgo 12th house people dislike taking advice or favors. They may act like they’re listening, but then take the opposite direction, either out of distrust or quiet spite.
💄 Venus 12th house people are some of the most beautiful individuals I’ve met, effortlessly attractive and likable. However, people often become jealous of their beauty or charm. They also tend to get cheated on, not taken seriously by partners, or isolated or mistreated by friends. For them, beauty can feel like a curse.
⚡ Leo 12th house people often attract attention without realizing it. They tend to have secret admirers who rarely confess because these individuals unintentionally make others feel intimidated. They’re usually unaware of how bold or confident they come across, even when they’re insecure or quiet.
💗 Aries Moons are surprisingly (or secretly) very feminine, even if they have big personalities.
🤗 Gemini Risings give off cartoony vibes, like they stepped out of a classic Disney animation.
